the reality of life in the family
Thursday 6 March 2014
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Age is something that can not be in the know, as well as the age of marriage. Whether separated by divorce or death. Children, it is definitely feeling the effects of the breakup, what more if the child is still living with their parents, then decided to get married again. So also are felt by Asti, his father chose to marry again. His father's decision to marry again after her mother died. Asti make objections.
Another with the great, his father married again when his mother was seriously ill. Remarried parents did right, what more if one of them can not meet its obligations. However, the marriage would not only involve those who are getting married, there are children who can not ignore the rights and feelings. There is also a large family that houses the marriage bond.
Marriage also should increase the closeness with God, and also not missing a fellow human being. So that the marriage is a blessing for all the families.
Adult attitude.
This is where the maturity needed parents who want to get married again, because this is the most important thing in making a decision .. but, the thing to note is that the child will receive a pair of characters as a stepparent. Therefore, in the opinion of the child's need to assess the criteria for their stepparents. There must be no conflict that would preclude a parent wishes to get married again.
Children also need to understand, to get married again, more than meets the requirements. This is an all-knowing god commands, Allah says "and was the inbred ones alone among you, and decent people (married) between your servants that which your servant men and women .. if they are poor Allah will enrich them with all the grace and knowledge of Allah is vast and all-knowing. (An-Nur: 32)
In this case, a loyal member of the family should give support and understanding to parents who are getting married again, especially from extended family, maturity is in need in response to this decision. All should be receiving comfort and mutual understanding, both of the child and of the large family.
Quality self
Anyone who decides to get married again, definitely expect a better life than before. This expectation should certainly offset by the quality of self in a previous marriage. Parents must have the emotional maturity of a better and more mature personality. However, the parents have to remain optimistic that this condition can live well. One of the most important things parents must show the child and family about the great wedding destination in doing it. And last, rest assured that happiness is not something that can be without a struggle and patience. Therefore, it is very important for parents, children, and families should equally uphold the gods command, ... "and hang out with them in a good way. If you do not like them (the patient) because it could be you do not like something, but good god make him kindness. (An-NIssa.: 19)
A few posts today, may be useful. Thank you for visiting. may we all be given health and family life filled with the grace of god. amen
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