how to set an example for children
Monday 10 March 2014
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Good morning , hopefully on a sunny morning , god gives us and our families physical and mental health . amen
This morning , I as an admin will discuss about the character of the child , how to shape the character of children to behave well and polite ? That's all , could be influenced by three things : parents , school teachers , and the environment . Here , I will focus on three things to " ENVIRONMENT " or referred to as " TEACHER THIRD CHILD " .
A girl about four years old , asked her mother busy . Finish the question , he asked again . At the same time , her mother was talking to the child's uncle . Was disturbed by his nephew , the uncle felt his pack of cigarettes , and then threw it at his nephew 's mouth , " basic chatty " said his uncle scolded .
The child is then shocked , screaming and crying to his mother . In addition to feeling pain in her mouth , she also felt hurt by the rough treatment of her uncle . Then her mother comforted her . Long story short , the child now grown , married and have two kids . Despite the bad experience it has been passed almost 35 years , but he felt as though it were yesterday .
He was hated at his uncle and felt disappointed with his mother which he did not defend it . Entertainment at that time provide it only minimally and not solve the problem . The child was traumatized by items related to smoking , such as ashtrays or lighters . Many years these girls live in fear of the goods and feel traumatized .
That experience somehow makes it often afraid to ask and do not want to try to find out more about the one thing he learned . The girl has now earned a master's degree from two different fields .
Another story happened in a motivational training for primary school children . The coach gives direction important to be careful in seeing pictures or impressions on the internet or television . One of the boys looked dreamy and smiled to herself , without listening to the material described .
The child is then in talking to. Though at first he was evasive , but in the end he admitted that he had seen a porn movie scene in the driver cell phone for 10 minutes every day .
When the information is accurate, the child 's mother confirmed it . Finally the driver was fired . Although the driver was gone , but the impact of his behavior remained attached to the child's brain and lead to deviant behavior . The child is often stunned , daydreaming and concentration and if in Tanya , the answer is often incoherent .
In conclusion , from the two stories above , describe the role of the " third teacher " for the children " environment " after parents and teachers at school . Many parents are not aware of the dangers at the same time the role of the " third teacher " is , among other things : a housekeeper , driver , relatives , neighbors , even the guests who come . All of it can be a teacher for children .
Not enough training parents and find a good school , but it is also important to look at the situation and condition of the third teacher in order not to damage the physical or mental . In the first story , the mother should admonish his brother ( uncle of the child ) that it is inappropriate in doing . Problems must get to the bottom , until the child does not carry the load until he was an adult . It does not change the lesson of " third teacher " is. However , there was no choice but to teach them how they should behave in children . Therefore , you should never entrust the children to the " third teacher " that we do not know for certain behaviors. Their behavior will also affect the behavior of our children .
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Thank you for reading this post simple , I hope what I say helps. may we all be given a happy and harmonious family by God merciful and all- merciful . amen
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