how to resolve conflicts within the family
Thursday 6 March 2014
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Often communities to resolve conflicts with word attack and physical attacks. When Prophet Ibrahim, instructed by Allah to slaughter his son Prophet Ismail. Abraham felt restless all day and he thought of the command. Eventually, he ventured a dialogue with her. Abraham said to his son, "O my son, indeed I have dreamed in god commanded to sacrifice, say what you think.? Abraham replied, O my father, do what in gods commanded thee. Indeed you will see me among those who are patient. "(Ash-Shaffat: 102)
A big problem can be solved by a dialogue with Abraham wise not to use physical violence to force his son to follow his orders. And also do not use abusive words as a parent to her child.
There are four stages of conflict resolution appropriate stages of child development, among others, as follows: 1. Passive, at this stage the child is almost no social contact and communication with the environment, this step is done by a baby who can not talk and do much, let alone solve the problem. 2. The second stage is physical attacks, the kids who are aged 2-3 years, often finishing with a physical attack, by the way: tantrums (angry), screaming, biting, kicking, hitting or throwing objects. He does not have the words to solve the problem. When wanting a toy, a child will immediately seize or when angry at his friend, he would immediately hit. 3. Attack of words (verbal aggression), when children aged 4-6 years, then physical attacks will be reduced, but they begin to understand the power of words. They will move to the stage of "offensive words". 4 year old girl, sometimes saying, "ugly clothes". 4. Language, at this stage, a child is able to resolve the problem with the language: positive sentence, not rude, and not judgmental. It is caused due to the development of good emotional control maturity. Children at primary school age or the age of 7 years should have reached the stage language to resolve the problem. For example: when a child is being made with the building blocks, another friend nudged the building. The boy then said "I do not like you ruin my building". His friend replied. "Sorry, I did not mean" up here, the problem is solved, then both children continue their activities. Prophet Ibrahim and Prophet Ismail small, solve the problem with the language. This way is rarely done by the nation today. Why, in this day and age people often solve problems with physical attacks or verbal assault.? That's because, there are problems in education at an early age. In fact, if a child has a problem in terms of behavior and attitude, then it will cause problems in adulthood. The ability of social emotions such as respect and get along well with others. important for success in adulthood.
Therefore, the education of children at an early age should be done properly and seriously. Karen if you want to change the behavior of children who are already large, will require a very long time and substantial funds.
So, in conclusion, the future security and prosperity of a nation depends on early childhood education. As the successor of the next generation. Are suggested, every child receives a quality education, moral and polite.
A few posts today, may be useful for us all. Let us pray for a moment, hopefully we can be parents and parents can set a good example for our children. hopefully we get a happy and prosperous life in the world and in the hereafter. amen
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