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multiple intelligences

Posted by Motivasi hidup Wednesday 10 May 2023 0 komentar
Multiple Intelligences (Multiple Intelligences) There used to be a high school friend who always kicked my chair, asking for answers during exams. Now he is a cop. There is also a friend who is ranked below me, is now a high-ranking official in the Air Force. Since high school, he always wears army shoes. On the other hand, there are also stories of people who did very well at school, but had a hard time getting a job. In the past, a person's intelligence and success were measured by his IQ. Students who have a high IQ are believed to be intelligent children, while those a low IQ are automatically labeled stupid. In fact, many people who are labeled as not smart are even more successful in their careers and professions, beating their friends with higher IQs. In 1983 Howard Gardner, a professor of psychology, wrote the book Frames of Mind: The Theory of Multiple Intelligences. I bought the book 15 years ago. He stated that intelligence is not a single ability but several intellectual abilities that are relatively unrelated to one another. According to him there are several types of intelligence: • good at using body parts. Athletes, dancers, actors, police, soldiers, surgeons and craftsmen tend to have high abilities in this type of intelligence. They like to draw, play jigsaw puzzles, read maps. So it reminds me of my students in class who are always sleepy but sometimes noisy. I told him to walk around the class (move) during the lesson. He really likes it. He can't study if he just sits still. Because most boys are kinesthetic learners. Teaching in a male class Vocational High School all really has to be creative.Once upon a time many children were late. I asked, “Do you want the consequences to read or run? In unison they replied, "Runiii...." And...they ran around the field with joy. Funny? Annoyed but wanted to laugh. I never get angry even if they make mistakes. There is a reason behind their behavior that must be understood. To calm children like this, sometimes I invite them to meditate for a while in class to calm themselves down, accompanied by soothing music. They really like it. • Interpersonal intelligence This intelligence is followed by the ability to recognize other people's personalities: intentions, feelings, moods, temperaments and motivations. They learn more effectively through group activities, seminars, and dialogues. They are suitable as salespeople, teachers, community leaders, managers, social workers, counselors or politicians. • Intrapersonal intelligence, This type of child has the ability to understand himself. People who have high intrapersonal intelligence are able to recognize their strengths and weaknesses, what makes them unique, and are able to predict their own reactions or emotions. They are suitable to be psychologists, BK teachers etc. • Naturalist intelligence This intelligence is followed by the ability to recognize and classify various species, both flora and fauna, rocks, types of mountains that exist in their environment. This ability is needed among botanists, chefs, farmers, nutritionists etc. Everyone has a different combination of intelligence from each other. However, in reality, parents and teachers have not maximized these types of intelligence. The formal education system seems to still generalize intelligence. Not a few special children fall victim to the school system that only measures language intelligence and mathematical logic. Kinesthetic children will certainly find it difficult to sit still and listen to the teacher. Musical kids will have a hard time understanding numbers. Mathematical children will have difficulty in painting lessons, and so on. It's like having fish, birds and monkeys climb a tree. The one who succeeded in being given the title of 'great' was of course the monkey. The others wouldn't bring out the ability to climb, because that wasn't really his type of intelligence. On the other hand, if the monkey is tested to swim, it will certainly not pass. If a child excels in language, interpersonal, and intrapersonal intelligence, but is very weak in musical, spatial, kinesthetic, and mathematical logic, he or she may not have outstanding marks in report cards. In fact, this combination of intelligence can actually be very successful in areas that were unthinkable during school, such as in sales or business. Gardner's theory invites educators and parents to pay more attention to children according to their unique advantages. No more stupid children, for those who are weak in one or two types of intelligence may be very special in types.The story of Michael Ifianto, an industrial designer, can be used as an example. When he was at school, he was not even promoted by his teacher. He had to change schools. The BP teacher asked him to focus on passing only, no need to chase grades. He can focus on his hobby of drawing. After graduating from high school, he studied S1 majoring in Visual Communication Design (DKV), and S2 in Italy. He got a lot of job offers from international companies. Now he is a lecturer and has his own industrial design business in Surabaya. Intelligence test is not everything. IQ tests and multiple intelligence tests, are not the sole determinant of how a person's future and success will be. There are many variables that determine success, such as hard skills (skills) and soft skills (morals, ethics, communication, leadership, persistence, problem solving, self-confidence), opportunities, a supportive environment, etc. Parents and educators must understand the child's intelligence, give him the opportunity to develop this type of intelligence and of course create a supportive environment for his success. There is no need to compare our children with other people's children. Just love the child as he is. Greetings Parenting. Parenting is loving. with love.

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How do I choose a husband for your daughter?

Posted by Unknown Friday 20 June 2014 1 komentar
How do I choose a husband for your daughter?

     The motivator, on this occasion I will discuss a bit about how to choose a husband for your daughter, this particular message to the father, you are supposed to choose a husband for your daughters. On previous occasions, I also never talk about
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   If what you believe can not affect the way you live, then what you believe it does not really matter.
     
Do not misunderstand, I do not mean to suggest that you try searching the newspapers or in the neighborhood where you live, to choose the proper husband for your daughter. However, I want to say to you, that you are helping your daughter choose her future husband. for choosing a good husband for your daughter, click here.
    
The process begins when your daughter like to sit on your lap or ride your back. Actually, the first knowledge that was obtained by your daughters about relationships with the opposite sex is derived from his father. What is a father teaching his daughter how a man treats a woman, would be a measure of expectations-expectations. If you treat your wife with courtesy and respect, then your daughter will keep it in his memory as the way it should be treated by her future husband.
   
When you see your son loves his mother and treated with respect, he came to know that he should treat his future wife like that. but on the contrary, if you look at your daughter Treating your wife with rough, then your daughter will learn that such a man that treats a woman, and he would not be surprised, though obviously your daughter will not like it if her husband will be abused her.
   
When you get married, it will be in your wife's mother say to your wife is "you have made a deal of a lifetime, but if he is torturing you, you know there are homes available for you". By surprising coincidence, that's what we say to our daughters. This communication helped our daughter avoid mistakes and errors.
   
So, for the father, the meaning of all this is, "if you love your daughter, then you should treat your daughter and mother with respect and tact. If you do, chances are your daughter will choose her future husband wisely. The possibility that her candidate is also exactly what will be chosen by her father. if you have a questions. how can i help my daughter marry well? click here.

    
"Whale holding a message to his son, only if you spray water, you will be in a spear".
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How to overcome the problems in marriage

Posted by Motivasi hidup Sunday 23 March 2014 0 komentar
How to overcome the problems in marriage


 
  How to overcome the problems in marriage? Married life tied by a strong agreement. This agreement does not necessarily contain mild consequences for both sides. The agreement covers the life of this world and the hereafter. Not merely worldly social contract, as understood by Westerners about their marriage.
   
The agreement contains the rights and obligations of both the rights and obligations to be mutually beneficial relationship. The position of the husband and wife in the family as the subject and object. Husband and wife fulfill the rights and obligations that must exert wife. If the husband does not mean there is a maximum of rights obligations unfulfilled wife.
   
Conversely, if the wife does not fulfill their obligations properly, then the husband will feel uncomfortable in the family. In today's life, many cases we find that the husband is often a wife's rights or do not fulfill their obligations properly. These are things that often lead to divorce because there are rights between the two is not met.
   
Wife needs
   
The right wife can be classified into two types, physical and spiritual needs.
   
First, like the Physical needs, the needs of food, clothing, shelter. Keep in mind, one's happiness is not standard of achievement than material that has been in get. Because it is a side of human needs in the family. In this case, The default is not the desire of the wife, but the husband's ability.
    
Good husband, it will give you something nice for his wife. Meanwhile, the wife is wise, will not demand anything beyond the ability of the husband. Therefore, it needs the material or property based on need rather than lust or desire infinite. In this case, there are two types of husbands. First, the husband who tries hard, he worked from early morning until late night to meet his wife right. As a result, the two rarely meet. Second, the husband slacker, daily maximum husband does not work, the wife consequently be neglected.
   
Second, spiritual needs, these needs are divided into a few sections, religious needs, psychological, and biological. Necessity is the religious, spiritual needs. Husband and wife shall be guided to the path of truth, increasing faith, and the practice of religion. Psychosocial needs; having psychological, is strongly associated with a sense of the need for a wife. Wife also need compliments, caresses, jest or get along well.
   
For some people, the biological needs a top priority desire most in the family. However, not all wives can enjoy the beauty of these biological needs. Because the wife actually placed as sex objects only. When in fact, they should equally enjoy this requirement. In this case, if one does not enjoy feeling this need. On the need for a husband or wife to open the handle, that can be fixed together.
    
I hope this post motivates you to be a partner that is harmonious, lasting, mutual understanding, mutual love, mutual understanding, and mutual sharing. Thank you for visiting. I hope you and your family to live in happiness 


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how to resolve contention in the household

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Succumbing better than in defeat
how to resolve contention in the household

    
Good morning all , how are you today ? I hope you all are healthy and happy . Today, I will share a solution , how to finish a fight that often occur in married life . If you and your spouse both have a strong character , often times it is a source of contention . Difficult in the set , will not budge . In the end , divorce is the only best way to solve it .
    
For problems like this , it helps if you have the maturity to budge . Succumbing does not mean you are defeated . But succumbing to transform and family and love is a glory .
    
First , the wife who succumb
    
Psychologically , men created more selfish than women . This is reasonable , as it relates to their duties as leader of the family . This fact can yak on blame , it is better understood in the swatch and the best way to deal with it . One of the best ways is to raise awareness of the wife that the wife's real quarrel more succumb . This is consistent with the physical condition of women in ne made ​​with soul filled with compassion and gentleness , devotion and sacrifice.
   
If in psychological associate , because men are more selfish , it will be very fatal consequences if the husband by the wife set . If this is the case to make the husband feel offended , then ni circumstances that make most cheating husband , who tend to often times a husband and wife set . Strength lies precisely in the budge husband's wife was on obedience and patience , Haggai and follow what you think first husband , do not cornered the guilt . Find another time where each heart was in a state of calm .
    
Second , the husband relented
    
But in one condition quarrel , a wife could be more emotional , so it is better to choose a husband is in a position to budge . Prophet never told the men to always do soft on women ? This teaching is given in particular , relating to the condition of the women who created the feminine , making it more sensitive and emotional .
   
" Doing well in women because women actually means created from a rib , and actually cast the most crooked rib is the top , if you straighten it then it will be broken " ( Hadith narrated by Bukhari )
    
Avoid physical violence
   
So , by no means taboo if a husband choose to move over for an emotional stop squabbling . Succumbing here has nothing to do with authority . One if the husband was embarrassed to succumb to the fear of losing his authority reasons . Husband had to be firm and authoritative , there are times when a husband should give that lengthen never an issue . Husband had to succumb if the wife's contention see more emotion . Emotions wife not because they want to feel more than a husband , but merely because they do not understand the problem .
 
However , the husband relented because he was more intelligent and mature than his wife . Not so with if the wife has a dismissive and condescending husband's character . If so , then it's time to act decisively husband , if necessary, give him a sentence , to ignore and left his wife some time .
   
Even if the husband and wife should feel firm in the premises warns , do not do physical violence , unless the wife go to extremes and the limits too far .
   
Thank you for reading this article , hopefully can help you in resolving the conflict in the household . May you and your family are always in the shadow of God , may your life prosper given . amen


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how to build self-confidence for kids

Posted by Motivasi hidup Sunday 16 March 2014 0 komentar

     
The role of the father in the family


how to build self-confidence for kids

   
How to build self-confidence for kid. Good morning friends, hopefully in this sunny morning , we were all given the health and always in the shadow of god . In accordance with the above theme , today I will discuss the role of a father in a quiet family . a father , he is the backbone of the family , the head of the family . It is true , the father is the leader in the family , but in addition all , the father is very influential to the development of a child's behavior .
    
This is a story of a housemaid , who lives in a family . He felt at home in her employer's house , because it is considered part of the family . To his employer , he often talked about how his life in childhood . He described how happy childhood , was raised by a father and a mother who was very fond of her ,
   
He tells the father figure and how the treatment is very spoiled him . The father, often took a walk , play , and buy anything in wanted. As time elapsed , when the maid already has enough supplies , and then he said goodbye to his employer . He excused himself and said , ' father , mother , forgive me . All the stories about my father was not true . I just ever want to be killed by the father . I feel jealous of the families here are very caring and attentive to the children . Hopefully the father and mother forgive my mistakes and hopefully god forgive me .
    
The other story of the Spanish , because he could not find him son who ran away from home . A father , put an ad . The ad reads , ' dear Paco , met your father in front of the newspaper office , at 12 noon , on Saturday . Forgive my father , and all of them had a father forgive . On the specified day , was more than 800 people named Paco come into the office . They were looking for forgiveness from a father who was very loved .
    
Two stories above shows how important father figure in the family . Research shows . The people who lost the love of a father figure , and there is no substitute , will grow with behavior disorders , suicidal , and become violent criminals . A statistic showed that 70 % of inmates with life sentences are the ones who grow up without a father .
    
Then , how the orphan children who are born without a father or a child of divorced couples . Does the future make sure they're in bad ? Not necessarily . we remember how the story of the prophet Muhammad . he was orphaned , but there is always a replacement into the role of a father in his life , grandfather and uncle . Thus , the role of the father remains.
   
Education experts say that the father is speaking with establishment of the foundation stone and was instrumental in opening the frontal lube ( forebrain ) , so that children are able to socialize well with the outside world . This is true magic boy or a girl . Shall there is a father who handed the care of his wife ? Leave for work before their children wake up and go home after his son was asleep . How about you ?
   
Hope can be a lesson for us all . father , forgive your son , maybe I was too selfish to blame the father . I do not understand fully , how to you love me . Forgive me father . I need a father ...Thank you for visiting.


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how to be a husband and wife who wisely

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 assist couples who are terminally ill


how to be a husband and wife who wisely

The best therapy is the presence and compassion in those who loved
    
what is behind a " demerit " sometimes requires a sincere empathy and a remarkable to understand . What's in our minds , when we know couples who have a disease called " Schizophrenia " ? A mental illness , which is often taken people a lifelong disease . Indeed , it was a test for us and family .
   
So , what causes this disease ? And how do I fix this ?
   
Observe AND CARE
    
Mental illness may not be seen immediately as other diseases . Mental illness does not appear in man , but which becomes the onset of the disease is within our spouse . our ignorance of the pair is the heaviest load will feel it. Problems of married life was never completed . However , we behave as the most burden , without wanting to understand what is being experienced by the couple is the attitude that makes it cornered in solitude . So, be a part of our family life . feel what they feel . Indeed , this kind of attitude that will overshadow our soul mate , and become our protector of Hell .
   
LOVE FOR HAPPINESS
    
Continue to believe , that the disease is curable faithful . Although people say schizophrenic illness will keep taking the medication for life . But rest assured that , no cure schizophrenia . Permission must be healing gods . In addition , guided us to always accompany our spouses , even though it was not easy .

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   However , you are the right person is selected by the gods to relieve the sufferer . Although the disease should always take medication for life . However , therapy is best for them is to accompany them and support them , to be able to live a better life . And , if your partner is suffering , then you are most likely to make her happy with her ​​condition .
   
This is indeed the best medicine so that he can best live in happiness . Talk heart to heart what is desired by each individual . People with psychiatric disease , does not mean they can not create the best work of his life . John Forbes Nash , is one of a schizophrenic who still survive and can live with the best .
   
He became an expert in the field of mathematics , and was awarded the Nobel of his work . Therefore , Accompany them with a prayer that never end . That way they will understand that they are not alone in struggling through the day .

    
Be the husband and wife are mutually supportive in the limitations and shortcomings . Life is full of meanings that we have not discovered within ourselves , only if we understand each other and to others in our family , then it is the meaning of this life . Thank you for your visit . May the gods give you and your family , a happy life and be in good health . amen

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how to communicate with teenagers

Posted by Motivasi hidup Saturday 15 March 2014 0 komentar
how to communicate with teenagers
Achieving a brighter future for children

   

    
Unknowingly , many parents are putting teenage children still like the first , but now with the teenager who has always been very different .
   
In this globalization era , news of fighting between students and students still sounded , some even lost their lives . Sadness and of course we feel a sense of concern . In fact , in their teens are still a lot of positive potential that should be developed . But it all ends up in advance of the end of the arms of fellow his students .
   
It could be , that the victims are not involved in the brawl . When anger has mastered the soul then there is the dark eyes , who is close to the target of anger . The question is , why teenagers today combustible emotions to something that sometimes things are trivial ? Then what is the cause ?
   
Strengthen family life
   
Many experts are analyzing the causes of juvenile delinquency . Starting from a broken home , even environmental influences society and state system that is not conducive to mental and spiritual development of young people . Seeing situations like this , the thing to note is to strengthen the defense of family and faith instilled a strong value on the entire family .
   
Family as the first bastion should be strengthened . Because it is the only shelter for youth , faith in the family must be strengthened so that the teens are not susceptible to the problems . The family is the first school for the children , because it is very important for them to obtain education about moral values ​​.
   
Communicating healthy
    
One way to build resilience in families is to communicate healthy . Adolescence is different from when they were children . Now they already have a personality that should not be disturbed by others , often parents feel ignored . Actually there are a lot of questions in our minds and in the minds of teenagers .
   
They looked at some where it's hard to guess what they think . The parents should be positive about progress and change their behavior .
    
Active initiate communication
   
In terms of communication , there is no harm in parents must actively initiate communication first . Need to be in the know by the parents , if teenagers do not like the style of interrogation are questions , such as , " Where you been ? With whom ? You have to!
   
Avoid the attitude that we are spying on . Often called him , asking what he was doing or so .
    
Give them confidence
    
Spying on them can make them feel uncomfortable , either the parents or to his friends . As parents , we need to know with whom they associate . We gave them confidence , but still should be able to keep an eye on them .
   
Be a good listener for them
   
Sometimes , teenagers do not want to tell the parents because they are considered not serious about listening . When they told me , listen to them , watch them , and give them advice if necessary against what they tell me . It would be wise , if parents respond to their stories with words of empathy .
   
Find the right time to communicate
   
Sensitivity of parents to determine the condition of the child is in need of adolescents . Do not get to talk to them when they 're tired with schoolwork or college assignments . Moments like eating together with family or street can be made in good time to communicate .
      
Hopefully this post gives us a lesson how should parents be a good friend for teenagers . Thank you for your visit . May you and your family gets unlimited happiness . amen


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How to teach moral values ​​to children

Posted by Motivasi hidup Friday 14 March 2014 0 komentar

    
How to teach moral values ​​to children



  How to teach moral values ​​to children

A woman visited a special school for children suffering from serious illnesses . The school is located in a children's hospital . Age of the children who attend school there , in estimate by the medical team , will reach 12 years . To the teachers who teach at the school , she was asked about the matter and learning model that is given to children whose life expectancy is thin .
   
The teacher said , " that we teach in this class is how to make them feel safe , excited , happy , in love and in love. This class is conditioned so that the children have the virtues that the rest of his life meaningful . "For a moment , she muses , " if the children whose lives are lived only a few moments , they are taught the values ​​of kindness and they are conditioned so that they feel happy and optimistic , then what about schools for children who have the possibility to live long ? "
   
Disturbed by the question " the woman then set up an agency that helps schools to prioritize the teaching of positive values ​​of life , and not merely academic . The concept he get by the African philosophy of life that is Ubuntu , which means , " I , as you , because we are " .
   
The purpose of this program is to produce children who are emotionally ready to learn and want to learn . For schools that involve the wider community with the surrounding community in order to do a collaboration . Program activities include intervention , training , and support to the entire community , namely : the principal, the teachers , not the students faculty , and parents to find , cultivate and instill positive values ​​both at school and in the community .
   
Exposure above we will teach the students a problem in our country , especially violence . It's amazing to hear the phrase one of the accused stating brawl satisfied and do not regret after killing a fellow student friend .
 
In fact in the Qur'an , Allah says , " To kill someone , not because that person ( kill ) another person , or for spreading mischief in the land , it is as if he has killed all mankind . And those who preserve human life , it is as if he had been entirely maintain both human life . " ( Al - Maidah [ 5 ] : 32 )
   
Looking at the growing phenomenon of the fight either of the number or of aggressiveness , showed deterioration of the current student behavior . A mother claimed her son goodbye to anxious every school . Comes to mind is the possibility of something bad happening to her son .
 
Reflecting on UBUNTU program , need a special movement that involves all parties, schools , parents and the surrounding community in teaching and running the noble moral values ​​in life . This program is for all the components of society , not only in children and adolescents , but also all adults and the elderly .
     
Arabic proverb says , " do not see who delivered but look at what is conveyed by it " .
   
Hopefully this post there are benefits that can be learned . And , I hope we can be a parent or prospective parent is wise to choose the education for our children . amen

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how to respond fate

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     When the baby never comes
how to respond fate
 
 H
ave a baby or not , for it is a pair human destiny .
   
There is a story , two friends who have not met . With the fate of the gods , they finally met in a train . Like most people . They immediately hugged each other and longing to tell . There is also the theme of the story jumping around , from one theme to another . however , the first time at the ask is , stay where present , are married or not , already have children how many ?
   
Then , one of them , let's call him Albert , start telling stories, and he already has two children , the most oldest and youngest men women . When he was asked back on his best friend , let's call him Eric . Erick lineament visible change . It appears there is something in her hamper . Apparently, since married for 10 years , he has not had a baby . That's when Eric tells her story in the journey of the household to Albert .
  
Then Erick continued his story . " From the beginning to be married, I'm trying to not reject women my future wife . So I found a partner who think religion is good. " Said Erick .
   
The first days of marriage with the woman he did not know it . Making Erick awkwardly . However , they are trying to understand , recognize and foster a sense of love and affection . As time passed , my wife and the ship sailed home for almost no waves . However , although there is a little ripple , that is where we learn to strengthen and improve any shortcomings .
   
 According to Erick , his wife was a romantic , women are patient and diligent worship . Ten years is the age of their marriage . Erick and his wife continue to strive and strive , many years had they passed , but they had not yet had children . According to the doctor , they are both in good health .
   
Erick and his wife continue to be patient , if they do not have children , it is a destiny . Albert was concerned to hear the story of Erick . He did not think exams are natural companions in the patient and how they deal with it ." I'm trying to understand and feel the anxiety a woman's heart . I am increasingly aware of the limitations of a weak man . Who knows how long . Time has taught me and my wife to remain united in love and unfortunately god . "
  
Albert pensive for a moment and muttered to himself , " indeed , were it not for the love , patience and sincere . Erick domestic travel may already foundered . Love teaches them still survive , sincerity and patience to teach them faithfully teach them not resigned .
   
The presence of a child in the household is a yearning . In fact , can be regarded as a form of perfect happiness for husband and wife . However , there are still many couples who have not had children . Like Erick . Normally , if this happens often blame each pair . The presence of children in the household , not the power of the husband or wife , but because of the love and unfortunately the almighty creator god almighty giver again . It is all destiny . In order not to blame God .
  
Erick tale , it can be a learning . Patience , understanding and mutual support between spouses . Hope can be a lesson for anyone who suffered the same fate . And be grateful for anyone who has had a baby . May we all , including those who are patient . amen


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tips early childhood education

Posted by Motivasi hidup Tuesday 11 March 2014 0 komentar
  How to educate children properly .
tips early childhood education

      Good morning my beloved world . Today I will post about the beauty of which is owned by the world today . Of course , we realize there is much beauty in this world , both obvious and hidden . Either within us or from the universe . But the beauty is not always visible , sometimes we have to look from the other side . Such beauty that will not be seen by our eyes , but it must be in respect of our hearts .
    
Below is a story , which is related to beauty invisible to the eye . Happy reading
      
A little boy who suffered from polio which causes the size of the legs become unbalanced . Only the child's name is Patrick . Patrick , often gets teasing from his friend as " cripple " . One day , Patrick wants to play with his friends , he approached them who was playing . However , not a friendly welcome in the receipt , but laughter humiliation .
    
His friends abuzz mimicked how Patrick runs . Patrick returned home , his heart is very sad , she could not hold back her tears moans . When he arrived home , his mother asked gently what makes him cry . Patrick tells that in its natural occurrence . After hearing the story of Patrick , his mother said, " Patrick dear , the pain which , at the head or foot ? "

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    " The legs , ma'am , " replied Patrick .
    
Comrades Patrick , his legs are not sore ? Asked the mother. Patrick shook his head . " If their feet are not sore , but walked with a limp , then what's so sick ? She asked again .
  
Patrick silent .
   
" Patrick leg pain , but not the head . Patrick could go a long way later . But if both feet and the head are not good , then Patrick could not go anywhere , Patrick wants ?
  
The statement so made ​​an impression in the hearts of Patrick . He is fully aware of his shortcomings , but he believes in what he can maximize possessed . Although his leg disability , but with cleverness , Patrick can go to distant lands . He , with intelligence and wit nobody can beat him , the spirit of the heart and the desire to rise .
   
The above story , reminiscent of the problems often experienced when children receive the contempt of his playmate . When it comes to homes , we medium and praise the child , many parents are intended to entertain children with praise , but many are not in accordance with reality . For example , a child who is in contempt because he was black , his friends called him " the black man " . A mother said to her , " Who said black skin ? You're white , they're just one look! "
   
In this way , might be able to stop the crying of the child for a moment . But really can have a negative impact in the future . For example :
  
First , children are not aware of the actual reality .    Second , when the child is big , it can compare themselves with others , then he will realize that her statement was not true childhood . Of course it will lose the confidence of any of her statements .
    
Third , the child will always thirst with praise . In doing something , he will focus on the assessment of encouragement from the outside and not the inside .
   
Fourth , the child will not be forced to improve its capabilities. Therefore , if all that in doing it at great value , it will be argued , why do I have to try hard ?
   
Patrick learned from her mother , in the story , he does not praise her with excessive or deny reality. Honestly , her mother said there is a shortage on the leg of Patrick , but there are other advantages that can be improved so that Patrick was able to achieve success .

    
So many inspiring stories for today , hopefully there are lessons that can capture the benefits . amen

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how to care for the child when sick

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first aid for children
 

  Increase heart and give happiness , because pain is the right time to form a child's personal and practice patience.
how to care for the child when sick



  How to care for the child when sick
? A young mother feels inconvenience , when her son was sick was upset because his son did not want to go down from the arms. However , on one occasion , he met with the neighbors , and then told me that her first child was frequently ill in a matter of weeks . But it's like a mother 's sacrifice .
  
 When a child is sick , when it is a moment of extraordinary for any parent , especially for a mother . Severe pain or pain that is mediocre , still exhausting and emotionally . However , even then , the pain of a child before reaching the age of five years , when it was an incredible time that is given to the god parents to more closely as well as forming the personality of the child.
   
At the time of his illness , the child will usually be demanding more attention to his parents . This is where the parent and child interaction more closely intertwined in the appeal normally . Proximity is what makes parents more familiar with his personality , while making the experience about what things are indicating that impaired child health .
    
in the presence of her mother who is ill is the key to show joy . Sadness or anger will only make a sick child feel depressed . Especially disease in misery is a very severe disease . So fun and kink parent is the best provision for children undergoing day -to-day struggle against disease .
   
Children are accompanied by obstinacy and cheerfulness will provide encouragement for the child to survive against the disease . Therefore , when the pain is the right time to make the child closer to God , get used to whisper to the child who is sick with the names of gods and ask god more dear to him .
   
In addition , give her favorite food so as not to think too much about the disease , take the kids to see the beauty of God . And teach children to pray and be patient that the real disease is not something that is creepy , but an opportunity to draw closer to the divine creator .
   
But even so , as any disease that is given to a child of god , the most important thing to deal with it is to surrender to God , whatever God wills in us is a test for any parent . So , we will be ready to face any conditions . Pray with your child to make him feel calm and strong to face the exam that is given god . " O god us , forgive us , have mercy on us , show us the way of truth , heal our sick , and our sustenance bestow . amen

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