Be the beloved for yourself
Tuesday 25 March 2014
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In a seminar , a woman named Lisa , told her story, that she was married to a man who does not have feelings for her . After undergoing years of a long and frustrating in an effort to restore the warmth in her marriage . Lisa felt that she had to leave her husband .
" I say to my husband , that I want a divorce but my husband refused to divorce me . " Therefore , I decided that , even though he does not love me , I will love myself . I decided to give a sense of love and affection on me that I had been looking for in my husband
So , I wrote several love letters , for myself, the letter contains praise for me , how beautiful , how wise and how interesting I am . One day , my husband found one of the letter . Because the letter was not signed , my husband thought it was from another man . the next day , my husband came to me , and waved the letter in his hand . He said , " I can not compete with this guy , you get a divorce that you want "
So , what lessons we got from the story above .
Your relationship is a mirror for you . Love that you receive or that you did not receive from others is a reflection of how much you love yourself . When you truly love yourself then you will never be in the abuse. On the contrary , if you do not love yourself, then nobody can help you .
If you feel sad or frustrated for not getting the love , appreciation , or acknowledgment that you want to get from other people , then give it all to yourself , good love , appreciation or recognition . Have all the love for it . Why should bother to look to others ?
When you love yourself loving the funds , then your happiness will grow within yourself, and you do not have to hang it on others . when you give a lot of love for yourself , then your relationship will change as a reflection of the attitude of self-respect that you do .
You do not need to force or manipulate anyone for life will help you to achieve the changes you want . Those who do not fit in with the attitude of self-respect that you do , will begin to take a stand either respect you or will leave the world that you have mastered .
In the end , things will change everything , the world will send those that match the attitude of romance in you . Other people love is not source , but the source comes from you , the other person is not the source of happiness , but the source from within yourself .
So basically , do not rely on others , if you want good results of your work , then working with your own hands .
Hopefully you get what you want. Thank you for visiting.
see also : wisdom of the heart
how to seeking and finding of love
how to be merciful
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