how to resolve contention in the household
Sunday 23 March 2014
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Good morning all , how are you today ? I hope you all are healthy and happy . Today, I will share a solution , how to finish a fight that often occur in married life . If you and your spouse both have a strong character , often times it is a source of contention . Difficult in the set , will not budge . In the end , divorce is the only best way to solve it .
For problems like this , it helps if you have the maturity to budge . Succumbing does not mean you are defeated . But succumbing to transform and family and love is a glory .
First , the wife who succumb
Psychologically , men created more selfish than women . This is reasonable , as it relates to their duties as leader of the family . This fact can yak on blame , it is better understood in the swatch and the best way to deal with it . One of the best ways is to raise awareness of the wife that the wife's real quarrel more succumb . This is consistent with the physical condition of women in ne made with soul filled with compassion and gentleness , devotion and sacrifice.
If in psychological associate , because men are more selfish , it will be very fatal consequences if the husband by the wife set . If this is the case to make the husband feel offended , then ni circumstances that make most cheating husband , who tend to often times a husband and wife set . Strength lies precisely in the budge husband's wife was on obedience and patience , Haggai and follow what you think first husband , do not cornered the guilt . Find another time where each heart was in a state of calm .
Second , the husband relented
But in one condition quarrel , a wife could be more emotional , so it is better to choose a husband is in a position to budge . Prophet never told the men to always do soft on women ? This teaching is given in particular , relating to the condition of the women who created the feminine , making it more sensitive and emotional .
" Doing well in women because women actually means created from a rib , and actually cast the most crooked rib is the top , if you straighten it then it will be broken " ( Hadith narrated by Bukhari )
Avoid physical violence
So , by no means taboo if a husband choose to move over for an emotional stop squabbling . Succumbing here has nothing to do with authority . One if the husband was embarrassed to succumb to the fear of losing his authority reasons . Husband had to be firm and authoritative , there are times when a husband should give that lengthen never an issue . Husband had to succumb if the wife's contention see more emotion . Emotions wife not because they want to feel more than a husband , but merely because they do not understand the problem .
However , the husband relented because he was more intelligent and mature than his wife . Not so with if the wife has a dismissive and condescending husband's character . If so , then it's time to act decisively husband , if necessary, give him a sentence , to ignore and left his wife some time .
Even if the husband and wife should feel firm in the premises warns , do not do physical violence , unless the wife go to extremes and the limits too far .
Thank you for reading this article , hopefully can help you in resolving the conflict in the household . May you and your family are always in the shadow of God , may your life prosper given . amen
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