how to communicate with teenagers
Saturday 15 March 2014
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Unknowingly , many parents are putting teenage children still like the first , but now with the teenager who has always been very different .
In this globalization era , news of fighting between students and students still sounded , some even lost their lives . Sadness and of course we feel a sense of concern . In fact , in their teens are still a lot of positive potential that should be developed . But it all ends up in advance of the end of the arms of fellow his students .
It could be , that the victims are not involved in the brawl . When anger has mastered the soul then there is the dark eyes , who is close to the target of anger . The question is , why teenagers today combustible emotions to something that sometimes things are trivial ? Then what is the cause ?
Strengthen family life
Many experts are analyzing the causes of juvenile delinquency . Starting from a broken home , even environmental influences society and state system that is not conducive to mental and spiritual development of young people . Seeing situations like this , the thing to note is to strengthen the defense of family and faith instilled a strong value on the entire family .
Family as the first bastion should be strengthened . Because it is the only shelter for youth , faith in the family must be strengthened so that the teens are not susceptible to the problems . The family is the first school for the children , because it is very important for them to obtain education about moral values .
Communicating healthy
One way to build resilience in families is to communicate healthy . Adolescence is different from when they were children . Now they already have a personality that should not be disturbed by others , often parents feel ignored . Actually there are a lot of questions in our minds and in the minds of teenagers .
They looked at some where it's hard to guess what they think . The parents should be positive about progress and change their behavior .
Active initiate communication
In terms of communication , there is no harm in parents must actively initiate communication first . Need to be in the know by the parents , if teenagers do not like the style of interrogation are questions , such as , " Where you been ? With whom ? You have to!
Avoid the attitude that we are spying on . Often called him , asking what he was doing or so .
Give them confidence
Spying on them can make them feel uncomfortable , either the parents or to his friends . As parents , we need to know with whom they associate . We gave them confidence , but still should be able to keep an eye on them .
Be a good listener for them
Sometimes , teenagers do not want to tell the parents because they are considered not serious about listening . When they told me , listen to them , watch them , and give them advice if necessary against what they tell me . It would be wise , if parents respond to their stories with words of empathy .
Find the right time to communicate
Sensitivity of parents to determine the condition of the child is in need of adolescents . Do not get to talk to them when they 're tired with schoolwork or college assignments . Moments like eating together with family or street can be made in good time to communicate .
Hopefully this post gives us a lesson how should parents be a good friend for teenagers . Thank you for your visit . May you and your family gets unlimited happiness . amen
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