How to get Real affection
Thursday 27 March 2014
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One day , I was severely depressed twice in my life . At that time , my friends came to help me , save me with the support and advices really at intend. In the midst of the depression that I experienced , I have a friend who is doing different things with my colleagues the other .
Every 4 pm , he came to me , inviting me to sit in a chair , take off your shoes from my feet , and massaging my feet . In almost never say any word , but he was there , he was with say . He is dependent upon me , I sort of liaison to the human community and then into myself . He does not need my fix , he knew the meaning of love .
From the story above , relates that , love is not just words of affection or love persuasions , but embodied in the form of sincere deeds done though quietly . When you notice your loved ones are in a situation that is painful , uncomfortable feeling may force you to help him . Although you are good goals , but in fact they do not need help.
All they need is kindness , support , flexibility for them to be themselves . Sometimes our thinking about how others should conduct a process is a coercion beliefs and values that we believe or beliefs , and their values are ultimately only add to their pain .
Healing is to provide relief , not like the way that we think about how other people should be given a sense of relief , but in a way that really want to help them . Sweetheart means finding another what makes other people feel happy and then give it to them .
The first step to helping other articles out of the problem is to accompany them . Make them know that you love and care for them . Your presence is more important in comparison with your technique . Meanwhile , the words are not important healing element , though the words were effective in providing tranquility . But just at that moment , that does not heal in the long term .
Just accompany someone when they undergo the process of healing in the face of their problems , is a noble and holy act . If you oppose or support their response to the problem was , then you would only exacerbate their difficulties . If you show compassion to those who are actually without any conditions , then you will be helping them , in comparison that can be done by a method of healing with words .
So in conclusion , to accompany those who are in trouble or critical is the best method of healing , in a way we could make them accompany them we care and really showed the true affection to them .. thank you for visiting
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