HOW TO REDUCE ANGER COUPLE
Thursday 13 March 2014
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Good morning, hopefully today we are all healthy and happy. But, if perhaps all of us there who have problems with their partner, but do not know how to handle it. because of the possibility of our partner rampart. for that, there is little here that is very Simpler solution. I'm sure you all can do well. hopefully can help you. please refer to
One day , a man came to me . These young men sat and talked , even he has not introduced himself and asked if I had time to listen to the story . He kept talking . Whether or not I listen to him , he did not notice me .
When my kitchen to get a drink , he was just talking to myself . I conclude , this man must have a very severe emotional problems . Because it is so heavy , he could not even control herself and her mind , she no longer needs a listener but he needs a chance to dump the contents of the liver and guilt completely.
The first meeting , I almost do not understand what is in talk about . The next meeting , he told me again , this time he could tell clearly . Although still repeating his word . At the next meeting , start invisible core of the story . He experienced a conflict in the household which no completion .
The cause of the problem is the man , his wife often acted rude to him , even physically hurt . In addition , the nature of both equally rampart , irritable and emotional . Actually it does not matter if the husband and wife both have properties that hard , as long as they can understand each other and understand the nature of each .
Starting from each other the nature of each pair , or we have to know what are the signs that spouse is angry , bad mood . we can act immediately on what to do in order not to explode emotionally . If you already know the signs , we can determine more quickly follow and refrain from behavior that is alluded to . So instead provoke emotions out , this is often referred to as emotional maturity , ability to recognize , understand , and accept the good .
Furthermore premises couples can communicate in a positive way and not hurt each other . Or it could also express this emotion in a way that is convenient , for example , "sorry , I 'm angry "
If not possible , a husband or wife can express negative emotions to the full. Can speak openly and carefully , but must exercise restraint and not to blame . We must remember that , personal communication conjugal aims to achieve the best completion point . , Relieve settlement , valued and heard .
Up here , we do not need to rush to find a solution of the problems that are being hit . There is a tendency , in a situation like this , we are still not thinking clearly . Instead , we tend to still want to win the argument and even each corner . If we are still not thinking clearly, as good as any in the proposed way out by couples , we still can not accept it for what it is . That is why , we need to hold back for a moment . Most importantly , we can ( husband and wife ) can be a win-win in every dispute .
Even if the case , we still peaking emotions spouse , you need to do is hold back for a moment , accept each emotion , do not sue , blaming . Although the error was available to him , remained silent and hold down for a moment . If emotions had subsided , and each pair had known each other know what is not in love , then the husband and wife can be sure to be looking for atmosphere , time and place to communicate well . Discuss the problem with your heart quiet and relaxing . If not invited to speak calmly and relaxed , then the best way is to discuss it with him to eat . Because if in conscientious deeper . 90 % - growing love of eating good food . Next, discuss the problem of heart to heart .
I hope this short post is useful, may be a lesson for all of us and hopefully can give you inspiration and motivation to be a pair of healthy living in a family.
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