how to be a wise husband and wife
Thursday 20 February 2014
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Not always have to give in
How to be a wise husband and wife, Not always succumb, goodness it fruitful for all parties . Succumbing , a word that is almost always there from day -to-day life . While succumbing does not mean defeat , it would be nice if every person should try to understand that forgiving, if it must be done , must be based on logical grounds and strong consideration
We should also try to understand that caving , should not based on what is believed by emotion . Succumbing must also be balanced with the belief of god , begging prompts whether to succumb or survive . Need to be in the know that every decision is taken not merely as we want . It's wrong to assume budge as the best way to be happy every party .
One thing that is a valuable lesson for us is how we should be able to love yourself . That we should not ignore anything worthwhile for yourself . Although , self- neglect or succumb to other people is often understandable for some people . However , it was a bad decision to go through life .
How many people who feel guilty when they are putting their own interests before the interests of the family or people nearby. They feel that putting self-interest or self-love is the most selfish thing . In fact , the reality is not like that .
Love yourself by meeting the requirements is sufficient provision to love others well . A simple example , a mother who does not pay attention when he had to rest and when to eat , he can not provide maximum affection to their children . He would quickly fall ill and tend to think negatively about liability in doing it .
So doing is unfair to yourself . Relented and allowed ourselves as a sacrifice that will only take us on a victim mindset , which tends to blame others , bemoan themselves and often feel constrained and helpless . Apply at your minds , that we have the right to be happy , because by knowing the feeling of happiness , we would do well to bring the same happiness to other people .
As we love ourselves , then others will appreciate our loved once .So how can we ourselves happy .First , learn to say no . Rest assured feeling uncomfortable when we might be doing . But doubts it will be replaced with an incredible sense of freedom when we have managed to express it . Is not god also has willed us to be servants of the independent commands us saying " there is no god besides him ." ?
Next, make it a habit to express what we feel well and still respect the person we are talking to. Rest assured that whatever we feel , everything is legitimate for us to feel. However, we need to pass them on to others well and controlled . Blame yourself with what we feel , will only lead to stress and depression .
Because we are human beings who have emotions . However , we will have added value when we can control these emotions , present it well and it can make what we perceive as an addition to our comfort with others . So , if we do have to give in though , the decisions we make is not based on pity , especially because it is helpless . Because we have been in the Arm by god , intelligence , love and freedom be the best person . For ourselves as well as others .
see also the power of forgive
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