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FACTS ABOUT THE NEGATIVE IMPACT OF SMOKING

Posted by Unknown Wednesday 14 May 2014 1 komentar
FACTS ABOUT THE NEGATIVE IMPACT OF SMOKING

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In my previous post about tips on treating trauma with pet therapytips out of troubletips to build team in working on this occasion , let me discuss a few facts about the negative effects of smoking .
    
Failure was supposed to be a teacher for us , not a disaster for us . failure is delay , not defeat . Failure is a temporary service , not a dead end .
   
More recently , I saw two teenage girls who were smoking . Is clearly visible , the two girls are the new smokers . As a father who has seen two daughters suffered from trying to quit smoking . I would like to give advice to both the adolescent girls . but I did not do it , because they are entitled to say that , it was all of no concern to me .
   
As a businessman , I look to both these young girls , that smoking would make them a hard time finding a job . Because , a lot of companies that do not accept employees who smoke . I imagine them , as potential mothers , smoking habits , very dangerous for the health of their babies . If they still smoke , and had become a mother .
   
As a member of a family of twelve siblings , who now live three brothers , really made ​​me to explain to both the teenage girl , that all my brothers that smokers have already died . You need to know is , the difference of life for people who are not smokers and smokers was nineteen years old . And if the three brothers in my family right now, live the rest of his life in accordance with that predicted , differences in life it becomes more twenty years .
   
I do feel sorry for reprimanding the girls, but I did not do it . Certainly , there are things that can be done to reprimand the community and is responsible for the abuse of tobacco to teenagers . Do we need to observe one generation we have gone smoke ?
   
State officials should be aware that it's not immoral to accept donations from tobacco companies factory , because one day we have to pay the evils that we have done now is to countries in the world by sending thousands of tons of cigarettes to them .
  
Cigarette tobacco will kill more of them , rather than marijuana and heroin . Speaking of hypocrisy , we need to examine our own values ​​here . Addiction to smoking is really an international issue .
   
The bottom line is that smoking addiction is not good for our lives , especially for health and our environment , depending on how we perceive the use of smoking itself . Everything is back on ourselves.Here are some facts about the negative effects of smoking . May be useful for all of us . Thank you for visiting.

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Tips to build a team in the working

Posted by Unknown Tuesday 6 May 2014 1 komentar


refernce, inspiration, motivation, integrity

 
kindness-enos.blogspot.com, in my previous posts, I've discussed about tips out of trouble. how to deal with the disaster, and the change is good for you. on this occasion, let me give you a Tips to build a team in the works , No problem , if you resign from a position . However , do not ever resigned from employment .
   Major surgery , not only requires a skilled surgeon , but also in need of skilled assistants , so that the operation running properly . They function as a team . No one can carry out a major operation with alone , even though he is an expert in the field .
   In a large hospital , a new head nurse , is serving his first assignment . He leads all the other nurses in the operating room . He takes full responsibility for carrying out all the duties of nurses . When the operation is complete , the surgeon said , "Okay , now we close the cut . Please sewing thread " . The new head nurse replied , " the doctor , you'd use the 12 sponge , whereas we have issued 11 " . The surgeon said that , all the sponge has been issued , and ready to sew . The head nurse , said " doctor , before you use the sponge 12 , and only eleven were issued " . With exasperation , the surgeon replied , " I 'll will be responsible " . Hearing the answer, the head nurse angry and stomped his feet , and said , " doctor ,this patient Would you think ! Hearing the head nurse said so , the surgeon smiled , and lifted one of him legs , and showed that sponge to the twelve . The surgeon said to the head nurse , " you pass " integrity has been tested and passed with good grades .
   The question is , how many of us , if it is in the same situation , would bear the risk of snapping the surgeon , when in thinking occurred miscalculation . However , the head nurse feels that the patient's safety and lives at stake , and he no doubt did the right thing . When in the review in the long run , that's the best way to reach the top and stay afloat .
    From the story above , there is a wise words of ROGERStaubach , " the team builder is life tea bags , they will be effective when the water is hot " .

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tips early childhood education

Posted by Motivasi hidup Tuesday 11 March 2014 0 komentar
  How to educate children properly .
tips early childhood education

      Good morning my beloved world . Today I will post about the beauty of which is owned by the world today . Of course , we realize there is much beauty in this world , both obvious and hidden . Either within us or from the universe . But the beauty is not always visible , sometimes we have to look from the other side . Such beauty that will not be seen by our eyes , but it must be in respect of our hearts .
    
Below is a story , which is related to beauty invisible to the eye . Happy reading
      
A little boy who suffered from polio which causes the size of the legs become unbalanced . Only the child's name is Patrick . Patrick , often gets teasing from his friend as " cripple " . One day , Patrick wants to play with his friends , he approached them who was playing . However , not a friendly welcome in the receipt , but laughter humiliation .
    
His friends abuzz mimicked how Patrick runs . Patrick returned home , his heart is very sad , she could not hold back her tears moans . When he arrived home , his mother asked gently what makes him cry . Patrick tells that in its natural occurrence . After hearing the story of Patrick , his mother said, " Patrick dear , the pain which , at the head or foot ? "

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    " The legs , ma'am , " replied Patrick .
    
Comrades Patrick , his legs are not sore ? Asked the mother. Patrick shook his head . " If their feet are not sore , but walked with a limp , then what's so sick ? She asked again .
  
Patrick silent .
   
" Patrick leg pain , but not the head . Patrick could go a long way later . But if both feet and the head are not good , then Patrick could not go anywhere , Patrick wants ?
  
The statement so made ​​an impression in the hearts of Patrick . He is fully aware of his shortcomings , but he believes in what he can maximize possessed . Although his leg disability , but with cleverness , Patrick can go to distant lands . He , with intelligence and wit nobody can beat him , the spirit of the heart and the desire to rise .
   
The above story , reminiscent of the problems often experienced when children receive the contempt of his playmate . When it comes to homes , we medium and praise the child , many parents are intended to entertain children with praise , but many are not in accordance with reality . For example , a child who is in contempt because he was black , his friends called him " the black man " . A mother said to her , " Who said black skin ? You're white , they're just one look! "
   
In this way , might be able to stop the crying of the child for a moment . But really can have a negative impact in the future . For example :
  
First , children are not aware of the actual reality .    Second , when the child is big , it can compare themselves with others , then he will realize that her statement was not true childhood . Of course it will lose the confidence of any of her statements .
    
Third , the child will always thirst with praise . In doing something , he will focus on the assessment of encouragement from the outside and not the inside .
   
Fourth , the child will not be forced to improve its capabilities. Therefore , if all that in doing it at great value , it will be argued , why do I have to try hard ?
   
Patrick learned from her mother , in the story , he does not praise her with excessive or deny reality. Honestly , her mother said there is a shortage on the leg of Patrick , but there are other advantages that can be improved so that Patrick was able to achieve success .

    
So many inspiring stories for today , hopefully there are lessons that can capture the benefits . amen

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how to care for the child when sick

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first aid for children
 

  Increase heart and give happiness , because pain is the right time to form a child's personal and practice patience.
how to care for the child when sick



  How to care for the child when sick
? A young mother feels inconvenience , when her son was sick was upset because his son did not want to go down from the arms. However , on one occasion , he met with the neighbors , and then told me that her first child was frequently ill in a matter of weeks . But it's like a mother 's sacrifice .
  
 When a child is sick , when it is a moment of extraordinary for any parent , especially for a mother . Severe pain or pain that is mediocre , still exhausting and emotionally . However , even then , the pain of a child before reaching the age of five years , when it was an incredible time that is given to the god parents to more closely as well as forming the personality of the child.
   
At the time of his illness , the child will usually be demanding more attention to his parents . This is where the parent and child interaction more closely intertwined in the appeal normally . Proximity is what makes parents more familiar with his personality , while making the experience about what things are indicating that impaired child health .
    
in the presence of her mother who is ill is the key to show joy . Sadness or anger will only make a sick child feel depressed . Especially disease in misery is a very severe disease . So fun and kink parent is the best provision for children undergoing day -to-day struggle against disease .
   
Children are accompanied by obstinacy and cheerfulness will provide encouragement for the child to survive against the disease . Therefore , when the pain is the right time to make the child closer to God , get used to whisper to the child who is sick with the names of gods and ask god more dear to him .
   
In addition , give her favorite food so as not to think too much about the disease , take the kids to see the beauty of God . And teach children to pray and be patient that the real disease is not something that is creepy , but an opportunity to draw closer to the divine creator .
   
But even so , as any disease that is given to a child of god , the most important thing to deal with it is to surrender to God , whatever God wills in us is a test for any parent . So , we will be ready to face any conditions . Pray with your child to make him feel calm and strong to face the exam that is given god . " O god us , forgive us , have mercy on us , show us the way of truth , heal our sick , and our sustenance bestow . amen

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tips how to overcome fear

Posted by Motivasi hidup Sunday 9 March 2014 0 komentar
How to overcome fear

 

  Good night all , tonight I will discuss in a sense that every human being had . As in the title above . And how to handle it .Fear is the dark side of the human being in which the negative was developed .The fear has been properly made ​​in stands of false evidence Appearing Real ( FEAR ) , false evidence that seems real . Actually , if we think that something is feasible in fear , the perception of it being the most cruel form of reality . A little boy was heard to say "it is easy to be brave when you are not afraid " . Similarly , it is easy to tell how to overcome fear , if not much that you fear
   
The fear is real for most people , and we all have a fear of something . For example , divorce , rejected , death , failure , poverty , public speaking or laughing .Then, how do you overcome fear ? Here are some possible ways you can learn :First , you must learn to examine fear , you have to know what you are afraid of . For example , speech , speech is the number one fear in the world . Not everyone can make a speech , according to Reader's diegest ( speech is also a great confidence builder ) . If that is your fear , ask yourself , Why am I afraid to make a speech ? Is it because I'm afraid to be rejected ? If yes , did I think I would be on the decline ? Do I believe what I'm saying? Is my speech worth ? Would I be proud of the comments I going to say?
   
By asking these questions , I believe , your fear can be reduced , because you have to explore your subconscious mind with your questions and throw away your fear . Some of the world's research shows , there are only three people who died when a speech of 12 billion people . I think it's pretty safe speech . If you are a bit nervous , think about this : you can lead a donkey into a room full of people , and it will soon calm ass that it almost can fall asleep while standing .
   
Godly beings in the same situation to be nervous as a cat , if you are a little nervous , be thankful that you are a good descent , not a donkey . So let's face the feelings , stand up , and speak with full confidence .This example can apply in a variety of life issues , whatever form that fear , ask yourself , reflect back what you fear , why should you be afraid . All depends on yourself.
    
A few post tonight , hopefully can be a lesson for us all . I hope what I say helps. if you like you devote some time to comment on this post . Do not be afraid to comment , yes ....
   
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how to make a successful business with ease

Posted by Motivasi hidup Friday 7 March 2014 0 komentar
 Easy way to calculate gods grace

how to make a successful business with ease



    how to make a successful business with ease, So many favors that Allah has given to us , unfortunately we often neglect .
   
in an opportunity , I met with a friend in high school past a simple restaurant . Then , four of us talked about the first school years . Until the end of my third forthright about the life they lead today . " You're lucky , your efforts successful , would you a lot of money " I said , to my friend who used to sit together with me . , Named Sutrisno .
   
People may say , my attempt was successful and everywhere always driving a car . But you see from the outside. You want to know how my debt that I have to pay this time . Half a billion , but , I'm always confident with the sustenance Allah , do not leave as long as the five daily prayers . Hearing the answer , I stroked his chest , because , naturally he borrowed capital into some banks for their business .
   
Then , my friend named Dudi , told me . " He worked as a driver in a private bank . And he is the best driver in the bank , a few times he got the award . " I have to be pleased, only gods blessings given to me . But in addition to favors , I was given a very severe test "he told me . My second child , thalassemia disease , which has no cure . Every month , a blood transfusion should , at a huge cost .
   
Although there is support from my workplace , but it's only half of it , try to imagine , if I'm late for a blood transfusion , it is getting close to my son 's death . Then , my third story, she has a very small business , and he still lives with his parents , his very devoted and pious , he was named Nazar .
   
I began to ask , what's your story ? Then vow began revealing about himself , " you 're lucky , he said . You two already have a family , have kids and a wife . As for me . Still single , it seems I had trouble getting a mate . " From that moment , I knew . Apparently, vows not to marry . Although he was already 40 years old . All four of us ended up still able to make friends in a meeting . Created in a simple table . Sutrisno finally paying banquet in dining by the four of us .
   
When I got home , the second son , came to greet me with a feeling of joy . I remembered that my third story . Then , I am endlessly grateful to the gods . What distinguishes me with my friends that is , if they already have a place to stay , while I was still living in a rented house .
   
So many blessings god has given me and my family . Hopefully I have always given pleasure and always be grateful all the time . amen

   
Hopefully this story can be an inspiration for us , so we are always grateful for the blessings that god given to us . may Allah bestow every blessing and his help to us all . thank you for your visit , I hope this post helps. amen

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Tips and how to overcome depression

Posted by Motivasi hidup Tuesday 4 March 2014 0 komentar

 Depression

Tips and how to overcome depression
   Tips and how to overcome depression, If you ever experience feelings of sadness , excessive fatigue after the move , lost interest and enthusiasm diminished , lazy activity , disruption of sleep patterns , . Maybe you are currently experiencing depression such thing .
   
Depression is a condition that is more of a feeling of sadness . When a depressed person to cause the disruption of daily social activities , then it is referred to as depressive disorders . Eliminate depressed person is not easy , especially in a natural depression that has been many years . A person who experienced it , if not handled quickly it will lead to mental disorders . Even the most severe is able to trigger them to commit suicide .
   
There are several symptoms that can lead to a person experiencing depression . Among others : in live by someone who meant so much to her life , reduced stamina and often feel tired , increase or decrease in appetite , increased or reduced desire for sleep , stress , irritability , frustration , reduced sexual desire and do not have expectations of future .


   
Causes of depression


   
Depression can happen to anyone , whether young or old age , and at any time since the depression can appear suddenly . The main cause of depression , there are a few things , among others, as follows :1 . Less positive thinking

     When someone is depressed , they feel that something bad is going to happen , and it will happen again and again . for those who think negatively and tend to feel depressed , everything that happens is a reflection of the problems and setbacks . changes in a person or a change in environment , a reasonable changes in patients with depression . 
2 . Lack of self-confidence .People who are depressed have always felt less confident , they assume that everything happens as their failure . Even a small mistake can they consider to be a big problem.    

     3 . More attention to the error in life.
     we must have made ​​a mistake , and some people make more mistakes . People who are depressed over their minds focused on the mistakes they do . As a result, they create a negative impression on the error .
     4 . Feeling depressed because of various obligations in life situations like this , people always think what they should do and that should be done . As a result , they feel burdened by various commitments .
    5 . feeling weak
The problem for those who are depressed they feel that there is no single thing that can satisfy them . In fact , when they realize they can overcome their mood , they do not do it . Advice from friends and family , they consider useless . One thing that they feel is , they feel inadequate or inspired by something . 
    6 . Overcoming depression with self-reliance. We can overcome depression with the help of other people , but for those who are unable to seek treatment , depression can be overcome by relying on yourself.There are several ways to do so , among other things :1 . Accepting yourself and your weaknesses
     If you are not able to cope with depression alone , the best thing you have to do to receive your shortcomings . You have to accept yourself with what you feel , and do the things you can do .
 2 . Know your thoughts and your negative feelings .
     As for how you can do in these circumstances is to record your negative thoughts every day for some time . Then you can identify the negative things that has always been a load of your mind . By identifying the negative thought patterns , you are able to prevent , and repair can even stop the cycle of depression .    
        A few posts today , may be useful . Hopefully we can overcome all the problems in our daily lives . I hope that we are all blessed life in a healthy and prosperous . amen 

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SINCERITY

Posted by Motivasi hidup Saturday 1 March 2014 0 komentar
              Good morning world , how are you , ? Hope is always healthy and happy .Well , to shorten the time , today ARK will discuss about Sincere
                     



   Of course , you must already know what the meaning of sincerity , see the coverage here ....Everyone would agree that counterfeiting is a crime . Counterfeit money , for example , who try to create or use will be directly dealing with the authorities . In fact, not just counterfeit goods , fake love anyone who did not like it . People who receive counterfeit money or counterfeit love , it is definitely going to feel angry and cheated .
    
Man, if you feel cheated will definitely angry and irritated . So what if there are people who want to cheat the god with falsehood ? Is not this ridiculous action because god knows for sure . Even so , there are many human family are doing . Such was the charity or acts that are not done with a sense of sincerity .
  
Sincere it like milk , the manufacturing process in the stomach of cattle , mixed with a variety of objects and other impurities . But milk is able to maintain her purity and cleanliness . Until finally separated from the accompanying impurities and clean out as milk , pure and delicious taste .
    
So also with a sense of sincerity , when a person is or will be doing something good deeds , then there are a lot of things , motivations and intentions that may appear tempting thoughts. If he is able to apply one intention only, without expecting anything back in return , then he successfully implemented a sincere , which will produce an enjoyment and happiness thereafter .
   
Doing something with sincere intentions is difficult . But it could be mild with the belief that god does not sleep , all- knowing god , allah will record any actions and our intentions . Spoken and hidden . God is fair , every action there must be rewards are worth it .
   
Humans who do good to hope for something other than Allah , surely tired and tortured by her hope that . For example , a marketing employee , who only work in pursuit of the target , may experience stress when the target is not reached . As a result he was compelled to commit fraud in order to meet those targets . finally , his heart could
feel pain and disappointment, when others who just got a bonus because the target is reached . He has not.
       and many more things that we can make an example in applying sincerity. for example, when we love someone, the heart that sincerely indeed affects the quality of the love with those we love. the result would definitely be going back on ourselves. if we give love sincerely and sincerely, then the happiness and peace that we will get in the liver. other than that, love is done with sincerity will be very beneficial for us and our loved ones. and love, fueled by sincere as gods, will eternally awake forever. but if the underlying because it expects a reply from the person in love, then that love will soon end. and the results, will be disappointed. 
      But , if he is always sincere in doing any work , the tranquility and happiness will be the result . He believes god look and will give a reward for his actions . Experts say , sincere is like water in the plant 's life . Science is the seed and the plant works is . Plants that will grow well if properly maintained , if doused with water it will produce flowers and fruit that could provide benefits . So also with deeds , will benefit if done with sincerity .
   
Sincere , in doing a kindness that is divided into three levels :First , charity slaves , those who labor for fear of the gods .Initial motivation was the fear of the gods , as a result they could not taste the sweetness of the love of god . That there is a feeling of fear and not calm her .Second , a merchant's charity , the charity for hope of reward in order to go to heaven someday . Hope to go to heaven is not a problem , but if it is made ​​in the calculation base for charity , one can experience mental fatigue .Third , independent of human charity , which charity as proof of gratitude to the gods . This is because the best charity in the underlying gratitude . Because each of gratitude will bring tranquility and happiness in the heart .
   
Therefore , before performing an action , we must be careful in setting intentions and goals . So that what we do can bring benefits to us and to others. sincere should be done with a sincere heart and expect a reply from the gods . Remember , all- knowing and almighty god fair .
        
So first post today , may be useful . I hope that our deeds are accepted gods . May we all , including people who are useful to others . amen

                     
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how to eliminate the confusion

Posted by Motivasi hidup Friday 28 February 2014 0 komentar
              How to overcome problems in the heart



how to eliminate the confusion
            Situations like this sometimes make some people complain . Everything in our lives is almost filled with a variety of problems . One unresolved issue , it appears again another problem .
not a few people who finally feel hopeless . And feel no more way out to resolve the problems in life.
  Many people think , the entertainment is a solution that can be overcome and alleviate the existing problems . So any entertainment facilities on offer . One of them is listening to music , singing , watching television shows that make laugh , watch movies. But honestly , it is not the solution , it is just a container that holds all of the problems at the next level will create new problems .
   
Solutions do exist at our respective beliefs . Whatever we believe is related to God and religion will give peace in the heart . Not only in the hereafter but also in the world . With the closer to god in the hearts of anxiety , worry and upset to be lost in the liver .
  
As much as any existing problems , the closer to god and many - many calling his name . Will make a person immune from things that could disturb his happiness . Humans are close to god , then god will always be noticed . Draw closer to God , is a requirement that every religious community . Because in every situation there is always a vicious man who tried to disrupt the peace of the human heart .
   
So , just to get closer to God will confer resistance to interference devil . In addition , by extending us remember God will give you peace in your heart and relieve all that burdensome .
   
God says . "Those who believe , and whose hearts become peaceful by remembering Allah . Remember , by remembering Allah do hearts become peaceful . " ( Qur'an letter Arra'd : 28 ) .The main source of all problems in human life are the sins which they did . No matter how small the sins are done in humans , it will leave a black spot in the heart . It will not be possible happiness that will fit into a heart full of black dots .
    
Because of this , people who are at recommended to always remember and close to god that black spot in the heart erased by the name of gods . Draw closer to God is a simple activity but has tremendous benefits .so , the best place to get close to God is when we are alone with tears in eyes and appreciate all the sin which we have done , in this way , all the existing problems in life will be answered by God .A few posts today , may be useful . I hope that we all , especially the visitors of this blog is always in the protection of God , and may we all including people close to god . May the gods bless you all . amen

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tips on choosing a good school

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