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Monday 24 March 2014
Your world is a reflection of your thought patterns
We see the world not based on how the state of the world , but as our circumstances . the fact that you are experiencing is the fact that you carry around in your mind . Hence, the view you are using in looking at the world today will determine your future .
Everything from life is a prediction of the future that fulfills itself. Your thoughts are not created from something outside of you , but by all attitude and your beliefs . As a god creature in Arm with any free will , you have a lot of
power to produce a world in your mind that you can explore to as your
thoughts .
If
you find yourself always doing negative things in any of your
relationships intertwine or in work , health or economic affairs , thus
can be sure that it means you are limiting yourself to interact and
socialize . Instead of right - thing you regret that you hurt , you better appreciate it as a reflection of who is in your thoughts .
You can thank every person who appears in your life . Because they all can teach you about yourself . Do not assume stupid , what they see themselves say or think about you it does not match what you think about yourself . Because basically , people were not outside yourself , but they are mostly from within you . Their thinking about assessment and you are the mirror of your own self-assessment and how you think about yourself .
Change
the patterns of your mind , then others will also change their thinking
about you .. if you are having fun patterns within yourself , chances
are you will believe in belief which is based on mutual love and respect
. Those who love and appreciate you , reflecting the knowledge that you deserve to get what you need.
The world you live in today is a world you create yourself , then make this world a world that you want to select . Do good to anyone , anytime , and anywhere , with the world so that you will be filled with compassion and kindness .
Hopefully this post useful and gives us the motivation to live a better life . Thank you for visiting.
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Seeking and finding
People who are looking for love just realize that the absence of a sense of love in them . And those who do not have love will never find love . Only those who have a love that will find love and they do not have to look for it .
When you sail the ocean of life , you may be looking for a source for guidance . When you get a reply from outside yourself , chances are you will be affected and confused . You will search a variety of information , but the fact that you need is inspiration . So , where you would look for answers that will satisfy you ?
Finding love is a matter of great life , because love is our true nature , and nothing else but love can satisfy us . however , the problem is where we look for love will make a difference in terms of whether or not we will find it . All the love you are looking for is within you .
When you seek love from the outside world then you may receive momentary happiness turmoil . But in the end you will feel empty , hollow , frustrated , and confused . No one can give you what you already have . Go back to the source of happiness lies within you , then you will not feel empty forever .
Within yourself , you will find everything you need so you can spread it to others . the secret of life is not getting the love . The love that you give to others will flow through you and will uplift you when you pass .
When
you distract your attention from the difficulties of your own and find
the beauty in other people and the world , then you will remember the
beauty of your own . Actually , you are never short , all you need is a reminder that you have love .
At this time , you have a lot of infinite love , because God is always embrace you in the arms of love and compassion . Understand your appeal , then you will become a lover who has never known the world over .
Hope you find what you are looking for , may god bless your great adventure in life . And may you be more thoughtful in your daily life . Thank you for visiting..
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Helping people live longer
Good
afternoon, before a moment let us pray to god almighty , that we are
all given the health , strength , and patience in the face of reality in
life . May we be given a long life , in order to meet back in my post-post this. Less is more , I apologize . Happy reading .
In accordance with the title of this post , how can just by helping others we can live longer ? Of course , this becomes a question for us . as we know , not age , marriage or death is the destiny of the gods ? That is true . But with all efforts , we can improve the quality of our health , so we can live a little longer life .
According
to research conducted by Sara Konrath and her colleagues from the
University of Michigan , proving that , people who like to help and do
good may live longer . The study was based on samples taken randomly from the 10317 people of wisconsin longitudinal study . The participants were a high school graduate in 1957, in 2008 they were 69 years of age , and half of them are women .
In 2004 , the participants in the data about how often they volunteer activities helping people ) in the previous 10 years . them carefully based on their motivation to help people .First , the reason being that helping others is important , and the second reason to volunteer is a good escape .
The
researchers then compared the reasons given by the respondents with
physical health information collected , including socioeconomic status ,
marital status , and health risk factors include smoking, alcohol
consumption , and body mass index . As
a result, those who become volunteers because really want to help have a
lower mortality rate compared to those who did not volunteer . Of the 2384 participants who were not volunteers 4.3 % of whom died
4 years later , while 1.6 % of the participants who is really sincere
to volunteer died in the same year ..
So basically , help others and genuinely and happily , the rates
are even lower in their appeal that does not have the motivation to help
people .
Can
make it easy enough for a long life , why should blow out the candles ,
let us increase the quality of our humanity as social beings by helping
people . Hopefully our good deeds are accepted by Allah . amen
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Posted by Motivasi hidup
Sunday 23 March 2014
How to overcome the problems in marriage? Married life tied by a strong agreement. This agreement does not necessarily contain mild consequences for both sides. The agreement covers the life of this world and the hereafter. Not merely worldly social contract, as understood by Westerners about their marriage.
The agreement contains the rights and obligations of both the rights and obligations to be mutually beneficial relationship. The position of the husband and wife in the family as the subject and object. Husband and wife fulfill the rights and obligations that must exert wife. If the husband does not mean there is a maximum of rights obligations unfulfilled wife.
Conversely, if the wife does not fulfill their obligations properly, then the husband will feel uncomfortable in the family. In today's life, many cases we find that the husband is often a wife's rights or do not fulfill their obligations properly. These are things that often lead to divorce because there are rights between the two is not met.
Wife needs
The right wife can be classified into two types, physical and spiritual needs.
First, like the Physical needs, the needs of food, clothing, shelter. Keep in mind, one's happiness is not standard of achievement than material that has been in get. Because it is a side of human needs in the family. In this case, The default is not the desire of the wife, but the husband's ability.
Good husband, it will give you something nice for his wife. Meanwhile, the wife is wise, will not demand anything beyond the ability of the husband. Therefore, it needs the material or property based on need rather than lust or desire infinite. In this case, there are two types of husbands.
First, the husband who tries hard, he worked from early morning until late night to meet his wife right. As a result, the two rarely meet. Second, the husband slacker, daily maximum husband does not work, the wife consequently be neglected.
Second, spiritual needs, these needs are divided into a few sections, religious needs, psychological, and biological. Necessity is the religious, spiritual needs. Husband and wife shall be guided to the path of truth, increasing faith, and the practice of religion. Psychosocial needs; having psychological, is strongly associated with a sense of the need for a wife. Wife also need compliments, caresses, jest or get along well.
For some people, the biological needs a top priority desire most in the family. However, not all wives can enjoy the beauty of these biological needs. Because the wife actually placed as sex objects only. When in fact, they should equally enjoy this requirement. In this case, if one does not enjoy feeling this need. On the need for a husband or wife to open the handle, that can be fixed together.
I
hope this post motivates you to be a partner that is harmonious,
lasting, mutual understanding, mutual love, mutual understanding, and
mutual sharing. Thank you for visiting. I hope you and your family to live in happiness
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Succumbing better than in defeat
Good morning all , how are you today ? I hope you all are healthy and happy . Today, I will share a solution , how to finish a fight that often occur in married life . If you and your spouse both have a strong character , often times it is a source of contention . Difficult in the set , will not budge . In the end , divorce is the only best way to solve it .
For problems like this , it helps if you have the maturity to budge . Succumbing does not mean you are defeated . But succumbing to transform and family and love is a glory .
First , the wife who succumb
Psychologically , men created more selfish than women . This is reasonable , as it relates to their duties as leader of the family . This fact can yak on blame , it is better understood in the swatch and the best way to deal with it . One of the best ways is to raise awareness of the wife that the wife's real quarrel more succumb . This is consistent with the physical condition of women in ne made
with soul filled with compassion and gentleness , devotion and
sacrifice.
If
in psychological associate , because men are more selfish , it will be
very fatal consequences if the husband by the wife set . If
this is the case to make the husband feel offended , then ni
circumstances that make most cheating husband , who tend to often times a
husband and wife set . Strength
lies precisely in the budge husband's wife was on obedience and
patience , Haggai and follow what you think first husband , do not
cornered the guilt . Find another time where each heart was in a state of calm .
Second , the husband relented
But in one condition quarrel , a wife could be more emotional , so it is better to choose a husband is in a position to budge . Prophet never told the men to always do soft on women ? This teaching is given in particular , relating to the condition of
the women who created the feminine , making it more sensitive and
emotional .
" Doing well in women because women actually means created from a
rib , and actually cast the most crooked rib is the top , if you
straighten it then it will be broken " ( Hadith narrated by Bukhari )
Avoid physical violence
So , by no means taboo if a husband choose to move over for an emotional stop squabbling . Succumbing here has nothing to do with authority . One if the husband was embarrassed to succumb to the fear of losing his authority reasons . Husband had to be firm and authoritative , there are times when a husband should give that lengthen never an issue . Husband had to succumb if the wife's contention see more emotion . Emotions wife not because they want to feel more than a husband , but merely because they do not understand the problem .
However , the husband relented because he was more intelligent and mature than his wife . Not so with if the wife has a dismissive and condescending husband's character . If so , then it's time to act decisively husband , if necessary, give him a sentence , to ignore and left his wife some time .
Even if the husband and wife should feel firm in the premises warns
, do not do physical violence , unless the wife go to extremes and the
limits too far .
Thank you for reading this article , hopefully can help you in resolving the conflict in the household . May you and your family are always in the shadow of God , may your life prosper given . amen
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Posted by Motivasi hidup
Saturday 22 March 2014
Earnest prayer
Little spiritual growth related to the words , but instead highly correlated with experience . We can distract each other and ourselves with words and hide behind the words . Nevertheless , the experience of life is much more valuable and will remain with us for a long time .
Prayer is real , not merely read but read an article in the intention of the heart . You could say all the right words , but if your mind drift
anywhere or if your intention is weak then you will only get a few
results. Conversely
, if your request for help with sincerity , desire and confidence then
you can say just a few words or none at all ) I 'm sure , your
application will be answered by God as a whole . Terrible experiences or challenging , encouraging us to ask profound questions that will require answers are correct .
The
questions that will make us review how the way we live , and remind us
of the sanctity of life , relationships , and our souls . so that it will make us , will be more respect for human life
from the other objects and starts his own we will do less manipulation
and more appreciative of life .
People who are already nearing his death , have a greater appreciation for life and a lot more make real choices . Include your whole heart in your prayers . And when you 're not praying , include the whole of your heart in your life . That way your whole life will be a prayer .
There is a story , a preacher religion and a taxi driver arrived at the gates of heaven at the same time . After questioning the two , guardian angels heaven door finally opened the gate and let ai taxi driver to go first . Then the preacher asked to sit and wait for further consideration . The preacher , angrily , " how can you invite the man went ahead of me ? " He complained . " I speak every day of the week for more than 50 years , whereas it was only done in the cab driving around town " .
" That's right " , said the angel . " When you give a religious lecture , the people fall asleep , but when the taxi driver drove , people prayed . "Pray
premises sincerity of your heart , not important , long or short your
prayers , if it is the deepest of your heart then God will hear your
every prayer . Hopefully what I say is beneficial to us all ." O my God , glorify people who read this post" Lighten his feet to obey do good" Live the family" Make it easy all his affairs" Ideals grant" Keep away from all calamities , diseases and disasters" And hold the match for people who read and share this post . amen Thank you for visiting
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Posted by Motivasi hidup
Friday 21 March 2014
Do not bury your feelings
" If you cover your soul , then at the same time you cover your body . If you always say what aa in your soul , it will feel healthy . "
Health is a function of self-disclosure . when
you are still alive , then be honest with yourself and also on your
dreams , then the body , mind , and emotions you will be united in your
goals . but when you hid your feelings , you will be covered , frustrated and probably will not have any expectations .
Depression is an indication that you 're resisting disclosure of your self . You may not be able to express your feelings and at the same time you will lose the spirit . When you feel depressed , let the moving energy flowing within yourself . Unleash your feelings through the things that can make you feel comfortable and calm . Like listening to a song or feel the breeze .
Express
all the pent-up feelings in you , and act according to what you want to
do with all those feelings , then you will find yourself in a place
that you want. In fact , many people who treat the disease , by expressing their
feelings and allow their soul to live freely and based on conscience . You have a talent and you just can reveal . Reveal your talents , then something else was not so important . You will feel stronger and your life will go according to what is desired .
There
is a story , a poet who was sick and at the doctor's complaint reveals ,
in my body you red spots and my joints ache , I also frequent headaches
and could not sleep at night . I become irritable and depressed .
The doctor asked , " when was the last time you read your poem ? "
" Several months ago " replied the poet .
" Have you read your poem aloud last ? "
" Not so "
" If so , please read my favorite poem you "
" " Well " said the poet .
Then the poet began to stand and recite his poetry .The doctor was amazed to hear the poem, " unbelievable ! " The doctor said . The doctor gave him congratulations . Then he asked for another read a poem . the poet and read other poems . after a few moments later , the doctor asked , " Now how do you feel ? "The
poet was surprised , he realized that he was feeling better , " I feel
very happy ' he said ' then go home and continue things like this " . Said the doctor gave him advice .
Thank you , I hope this post gives us the motivation to not always harbored what we feel . Harbored feelings is a liver disease that has no cure , until you express it . May be useful . Thank you for visiting.
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