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Sunday, 23 March 2014
How to overcome the problems in marriage? Married life tied by a strong agreement. This agreement does not necessarily contain mild consequences for both sides. The agreement covers the life of this world and the hereafter. Not merely worldly social contract, as understood by Westerners about their marriage.
The agreement contains the rights and obligations of both the rights and obligations to be mutually beneficial relationship. The position of the husband and wife in the family as the subject and object. Husband and wife fulfill the rights and obligations that must exert wife. If the husband does not mean there is a maximum of rights obligations unfulfilled wife.
Conversely, if the wife does not fulfill their obligations properly, then the husband will feel uncomfortable in the family. In today's life, many cases we find that the husband is often a wife's rights or do not fulfill their obligations properly. These are things that often lead to divorce because there are rights between the two is not met.
Wife needs
The right wife can be classified into two types, physical and spiritual needs.
First, like the Physical needs, the needs of food, clothing, shelter. Keep in mind, one's happiness is not standard of achievement than material that has been in get. Because it is a side of human needs in the family. In this case, The default is not the desire of the wife, but the husband's ability.
Good husband, it will give you something nice for his wife. Meanwhile, the wife is wise, will not demand anything beyond the ability of the husband. Therefore, it needs the material or property based on need rather than lust or desire infinite. In this case, there are two types of husbands.
First, the husband who tries hard, he worked from early morning until late night to meet his wife right. As a result, the two rarely meet. Second, the husband slacker, daily maximum husband does not work, the wife consequently be neglected.
Second, spiritual needs, these needs are divided into a few sections, religious needs, psychological, and biological. Necessity is the religious, spiritual needs. Husband and wife shall be guided to the path of truth, increasing faith, and the practice of religion. Psychosocial needs; having psychological, is strongly associated with a sense of the need for a wife. Wife also need compliments, caresses, jest or get along well.
For some people, the biological needs a top priority desire most in the family. However, not all wives can enjoy the beauty of these biological needs. Because the wife actually placed as sex objects only. When in fact, they should equally enjoy this requirement. In this case, if one does not enjoy feeling this need. On the need for a husband or wife to open the handle, that can be fixed together.
I
hope this post motivates you to be a partner that is harmonious,
lasting, mutual understanding, mutual love, mutual understanding, and
mutual sharing. Thank you for visiting. I hope you and your family to live in happiness
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Succumbing better than in defeat
Good morning all , how are you today ? I hope you all are healthy and happy . Today, I will share a solution , how to finish a fight that often occur in married life . If you and your spouse both have a strong character , often times it is a source of contention . Difficult in the set , will not budge . In the end , divorce is the only best way to solve it .
For problems like this , it helps if you have the maturity to budge . Succumbing does not mean you are defeated . But succumbing to transform and family and love is a glory .
First , the wife who succumb
Psychologically , men created more selfish than women . This is reasonable , as it relates to their duties as leader of the family . This fact can yak on blame , it is better understood in the swatch and the best way to deal with it . One of the best ways is to raise awareness of the wife that the wife's real quarrel more succumb . This is consistent with the physical condition of women in ne made
with soul filled with compassion and gentleness , devotion and
sacrifice.
If
in psychological associate , because men are more selfish , it will be
very fatal consequences if the husband by the wife set . If
this is the case to make the husband feel offended , then ni
circumstances that make most cheating husband , who tend to often times a
husband and wife set . Strength
lies precisely in the budge husband's wife was on obedience and
patience , Haggai and follow what you think first husband , do not
cornered the guilt . Find another time where each heart was in a state of calm .
Second , the husband relented
But in one condition quarrel , a wife could be more emotional , so it is better to choose a husband is in a position to budge . Prophet never told the men to always do soft on women ? This teaching is given in particular , relating to the condition of
the women who created the feminine , making it more sensitive and
emotional .
" Doing well in women because women actually means created from a
rib , and actually cast the most crooked rib is the top , if you
straighten it then it will be broken " ( Hadith narrated by Bukhari )
Avoid physical violence
So , by no means taboo if a husband choose to move over for an emotional stop squabbling . Succumbing here has nothing to do with authority . One if the husband was embarrassed to succumb to the fear of losing his authority reasons . Husband had to be firm and authoritative , there are times when a husband should give that lengthen never an issue . Husband had to succumb if the wife's contention see more emotion . Emotions wife not because they want to feel more than a husband , but merely because they do not understand the problem .
However , the husband relented because he was more intelligent and mature than his wife . Not so with if the wife has a dismissive and condescending husband's character . If so , then it's time to act decisively husband , if necessary, give him a sentence , to ignore and left his wife some time .
Even if the husband and wife should feel firm in the premises warns
, do not do physical violence , unless the wife go to extremes and the
limits too far .
Thank you for reading this article , hopefully can help you in resolving the conflict in the household . May you and your family are always in the shadow of God , may your life prosper given . amen
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Saturday, 22 March 2014
Earnest prayer
Little spiritual growth related to the words , but instead highly correlated with experience . We can distract each other and ourselves with words and hide behind the words . Nevertheless , the experience of life is much more valuable and will remain with us for a long time .
Prayer is real , not merely read but read an article in the intention of the heart . You could say all the right words , but if your mind drift
anywhere or if your intention is weak then you will only get a few
results. Conversely
, if your request for help with sincerity , desire and confidence then
you can say just a few words or none at all ) I 'm sure , your
application will be answered by God as a whole . Terrible experiences or challenging , encouraging us to ask profound questions that will require answers are correct .
The
questions that will make us review how the way we live , and remind us
of the sanctity of life , relationships , and our souls . so that it will make us , will be more respect for human life
from the other objects and starts his own we will do less manipulation
and more appreciative of life .
People who are already nearing his death , have a greater appreciation for life and a lot more make real choices . Include your whole heart in your prayers . And when you 're not praying , include the whole of your heart in your life . That way your whole life will be a prayer .
There is a story , a preacher religion and a taxi driver arrived at the gates of heaven at the same time . After questioning the two , guardian angels heaven door finally opened the gate and let ai taxi driver to go first . Then the preacher asked to sit and wait for further consideration . The preacher , angrily , " how can you invite the man went ahead of me ? " He complained . " I speak every day of the week for more than 50 years , whereas it was only done in the cab driving around town " .
" That's right " , said the angel . " When you give a religious lecture , the people fall asleep , but when the taxi driver drove , people prayed . "Pray
premises sincerity of your heart , not important , long or short your
prayers , if it is the deepest of your heart then God will hear your
every prayer . Hopefully what I say is beneficial to us all ." O my God , glorify people who read this post" Lighten his feet to obey do good" Live the family" Make it easy all his affairs" Ideals grant" Keep away from all calamities , diseases and disasters" And hold the match for people who read and share this post . amen Thank you for visiting
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Friday, 21 March 2014
Do not bury your feelings
" If you cover your soul , then at the same time you cover your body . If you always say what aa in your soul , it will feel healthy . "
Health is a function of self-disclosure . when
you are still alive , then be honest with yourself and also on your
dreams , then the body , mind , and emotions you will be united in your
goals . but when you hid your feelings , you will be covered , frustrated and probably will not have any expectations .
Depression is an indication that you 're resisting disclosure of your self . You may not be able to express your feelings and at the same time you will lose the spirit . When you feel depressed , let the moving energy flowing within yourself . Unleash your feelings through the things that can make you feel comfortable and calm . Like listening to a song or feel the breeze .
Express
all the pent-up feelings in you , and act according to what you want to
do with all those feelings , then you will find yourself in a place
that you want. In fact , many people who treat the disease , by expressing their
feelings and allow their soul to live freely and based on conscience . You have a talent and you just can reveal . Reveal your talents , then something else was not so important . You will feel stronger and your life will go according to what is desired .
There
is a story , a poet who was sick and at the doctor's complaint reveals ,
in my body you red spots and my joints ache , I also frequent headaches
and could not sleep at night . I become irritable and depressed .
The doctor asked , " when was the last time you read your poem ? "
" Several months ago " replied the poet .
" Have you read your poem aloud last ? "
" Not so "
" If so , please read my favorite poem you "
" " Well " said the poet .
Then the poet began to stand and recite his poetry .The doctor was amazed to hear the poem, " unbelievable ! " The doctor said . The doctor gave him congratulations . Then he asked for another read a poem . the poet and read other poems . after a few moments later , the doctor asked , " Now how do you feel ? "The
poet was surprised , he realized that he was feeling better , " I feel
very happy ' he said ' then go home and continue things like this " . Said the doctor gave him advice .
Thank you , I hope this post gives us the motivation to not always harbored what we feel . Harbored feelings is a liver disease that has no cure , until you express it . May be useful . Thank you for visiting.
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Thursday, 20 March 2014
wisdom of the heart
If considered trivial our friends or people we love , then we will miss the extraordinary talents that they bring to us . every person who walked the earth is a perfect creation of God 's creation compared with other gods . Those who we respected and praised as religious leaders ,
intellectual leaders or political leaders are those who can see what is
behind reality , and able to pull out the hidden truth that the people
themselves who they know .
If
you lift your view to find the high quality of those who are around you
, then you will live in a world inhabited by people who are enlightened
. Confidence and hope you can create people who are good or bad . To add to the goodness in other people , treat them in accordance with your expectations about what they should be .
give their best hope , then you will find what they expect in yourself . If you offer patience , support , and opportunity to others , then they will find the quality and potential within themselves . Do not dwell on the mistakes you 've come across , but respect their potential as a reality .
They
will be what you see in them , and your life will be an adventure that
is very broad in generating the best things in everyone you meet. When you find the advantages and the good in other people , then you also will find the same thing yourself . And conversely , if you just look at vices and shortcomings of others , then others will see only your vices and shortcomings .
Therefore , do good anywhere, anytime and to anyone you meet , may god bless you in love and affection. Thank you for visiting. may we all be a useful man for others . amen
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An opportunity
How to achieve success, each situation offers an opportunity for you if you are open to identify it . People
who think negatively will always blame the limitations or failure to
conditions outside themselves such as economic constraints , weather or
illness . While they rarely look to the place , where the limits do exist , and can in overshoots by reason of their own .
Obstacles are what you see when you take your eyes off of your goals that you pursue. Complain about what is not running properly you will only curb in a
limited and increasing the distance between the condition you are
currently in the condition that you want to accomplish .
A positive thinker long enough to recognize a problem but with the aim to find a solution . Success is what you achieve when you do not give any power failure. The people who are success-oriented people who are service-oriented.
They
realize that there is always a way to help others , and the customers
would be happy to pay for goods and services that will improve their
lives . In addition , success -oriented thinkers know that they also deserve to get support for capabilities they provide .
Do not ever stop because of the challenges . Every challenge is an apparent limitation that only exist for overshoots . With the outlook and determination , you will be able to go beyond it . When you walk in the darkness , then you knock on a wall , it means you will be guided on a door . the greater the challenges you have encountered the closer you are to success . Because there is no success without a challenge .
You are creative intelligence will describe for you the way that directs you to your dreams .
As in the following story . in
the early 20th century , a shoe making company , sending its marketing
power to the African continent . , to try to expand their market . After
a few weeks in a foreign country , the marketer sends a telegram to the
company in his native country while providing a warning ; disaster ,
disaster , disaster ! People here do not use shoes , immediately cancel production " .
Some time later , in the same year . A
marketer of other companies manufacture shoes , went to the same area ,
also in the hope of improving its customer .. not long after, he sent a
telegram to the office in his native country , but this one reads , "
opportunity , opportunity ! People here do not wear shoes , to boost production up to three times .
Of the two stories , teach us how we should see a condition into an opportunity . And I believe , this story is not only true for the economy alone , but can be applied in a feeling of love . Hopefully this post can give us inspiration and motivation , take advantage of all the circumstances to do good . Hopefully what you try to be successful . Thank you for visiting.
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Wednesday, 19 March 2014
Succumbing to win
Good afternoon, this post I will discuss about the tips into a happy and prosperous family . Of course , all couples crave harmony in marriage. But in reality , to realize it is not as easy as turning the palm of the hand . It should be a lot of mutual understanding between the two parties , either of the spouse .
For the husband , wife succumb to , does not mean undermining the authority . And for the wife , the husband succumbing to nature means living as a woman . To that end , into a harmonious couple and love each other , does not mean free of contention . Is not dissent can occur in various ways ?
The quarrel became possible , what are married couples have the same sam - hard character . How should the attitude of the Muslim couple during a quarrel ? How did the attitude of the prophet when quarrels with the wife ? The way out of a problem would not exist if the completion of each emotion .
If
the husband forced resolve contention it the hard way , even to the
physical act , so the wife finally forced to succumb , then there is
resentment and hurt the wife . Would that we listen to the story of the prophet in the face of contention . Prophet never fight emotionally with his wives . When
the prophet was angry with his wife ' A'isyah , he said , " close your
eyes " then' aisyah closes his eyes with a feeling of anxiety . Then Allah's Apostle said , " come closer " when ' aisyah approaching , the prophet embraced ' Aisyah saying . Have to go hug my angry moment .
Become parties to budge when contention occurs , it is not easy , especially if the error was not caused because we are . The need high attitude emotional maturity to be able to do so . People who can do that , then he shows that he has matured mentally , more mature and more intelligent .
To that end , if both have properties that hard , the best way to solve it is to stay away . Away does not mean to disappear . If not possible to get away should be silent . Let the anger subsided and then try to communicate with a calm heart . Try to take a deep breath and then exhale again , so the heart will quickly feel at ease .
the point is , when faced with an argument , try to budge , either husband or wife . Hopefully
this post can give you inspiration funds personal motivation to become
wiser and more mature thought of looking at a problem . Thank you for visiting .
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