THE MOTIVATOR

    Think and be successful



   Failure is an interpretation not a fact . An illusion of defeat caused only by means of view . Not always everything was just on the point of view of the way . In fact , the clock was already not functioning properly at least twice a day . Negativity is a choice you can control perception as your order .
   We won not without our mistakes , but precisely because of mistakes that were made ​​and we win . If you think to think of yourself as a " loser " , then change your self-image as a " man of learning " , an intelligent mind taking things that go wrong and then use it .
   Many teachers and great leaders derive their greatness by overcoming difficulties . The challenges they face causing them to move from the moment they take the road , but then they were able to realize that the obstacles that are part of their own way .
   Everyone has their own greatness . If you appreciate the power that is within you then you would have all the tools you need to achieve all your goals . If what you are doing is not working as it should, it may iu what you do it does not relate to what you love to do .
   Be honest about something that makes your heart feel happy then you will have a road map to success . So basically , we are the most perfect creature among other creatures were created by God . We are given reason , the ability to think , desire to socialize , and many more advantages and capabilities that have been ingrained in us personally .
    For that , you need to do with all the potential that is puts them into a form of activity , work or something fun for you . Because, basically , we will not be successful if we hate our jobs or hating ourselves . appreciate the advantages and disadvantages of each you have, so then you will have unlimited happiness in your life .

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 philosophy of life

 How to be a wise person, successful people telling others how to ride , not where to get off .
    Life lived mostly in reverse . You are not born to suffer , but you was born to continue to rise . Although love is our nature and sense of fun are our goals , many people accept the struggle as a way of life . It was never a goal for the creator god to you or anyone else . God created us in order that we can live fully , and appreciate all of your abilities and around yourself
     The statement has been around since ancient times and is given in the form of models, illustrations , stories and so forth parables . One of the most ancient philosophy says that " for want of a nail , there goes a shoe horse , for want of a horse shoe , a horse gone , for want of a horse , the rider gone , for want of a rider , then there goes the leader , for want of a leader , there goes triumph in battle , for want of a plan , so goes the nation " .
    One variation of philosophy that can be shaped ancient Chinese philosophy , which is often filled with wisdom and truth . These philosophies contain truths that apply to humans and nations , whenever and wherever . " If there is righteousness in the heart , there will be proper in character . If there is proper in character , there will be harmony in the home , if there is harmony in the home , there will be order in the nation . And if there is order in the nation , then there will be peace in the world .
   The philosophy is simple and profound . Simple means not complex or complicated . I believe you agree that most of us like things simple and easy to understand , such as truth and integrity . deep meaning , " in , decreased , or far below the surface , not on the skin only " . Depth as well as " humble " , as a humble respectful attitude toward God .
    It certainly gives us something to us contemplate . Geographically and economically , people today really too ignore , because we kept hearing people say , " Where 's my money runs out yes ? " Is certainly true .
   
     Thank you for your visit to this blog , hopefully this short post can inspire us to be an example to us all and may we all be a role model for people of our generation successor . best wishes

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 the impact and consequences of drinking alcohol


            
For the umpteenth time , scientists proved that alcohol , even in small amounts, can disrupt the human heart beats which in medical terms is known arrhythmia or Atrial fibrillation ( AF ) . Doctors already know that since long , hard drinking habits can trigger AF . Where the upper chambers of the heart will experience a chaotic situation that does not beat normally .
    Chaotic heart rhythm that occurs even though people drinking alcohol in small amounts . Research reports on the release of the Canadian Medical Association Journal , beginning October 2012 states , a study of 30000 thousand adults who drink alcohol will have clogged arteries , stroke , diabetes , kidney disorders and heart coroner .
   In five years, people who drink alcoholic beverages , only at certain times would experience a heart rhythm disorder average of 1.5 % per year , while those who only drink alcohol in small amounts will experience heart rhythm disturbances only 2.1 % per year .
   Researchers also look at other factors Atrial fibrillation causes , such as age , weight and smoking habits . However , strong evidence suggests that drinking alcohol , even in small amounts can raise the risk of AF to 1.4 % . In addition to disturbing health , while the other dangers that can be caused by alcohol , such as criminal activity , commotion and can also damage the health of the fetus for the woman understood .
   The organs of the human body is most vulnerable is the heart or liver . People who are used to drinking alcohol in excess of the above , it will gradually increase the levels of fat in the heart . As a result , the heart has to work harder than usual remedy to overcome excess fat which does not dissolve in the blood .
   Another effect is , can damage nerves . Continuously consume will cause nerve damage that causes brain drinkers lost consciousness , his balance and his senses will be less sensitivity. In addition due to that caused serious is the risk of symptomatic heart disease , decreased sexual desire , poverty , lower levels of consciousness .That is why Islam forbids alcohol to its adherents . Because it can interfere with the concentration of worship .
    Remedy it , from now on , stop the consumption of alcohol , protect the people of our reconnaissance with a healthy way of life . Hopefully this post can give us an awareness of the importance of health . If you've got the awareness , comment or share . Greetings healthy living.


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     Cancer patients who are married live longer


    Good morning , this morning's post I will discuss , one of the benefits of marriage. The benefits of getting married can also improve the quality of healthcare . As in the title above , married people are healthier life and longer lifespan , besides, marital status and family may distance themselves from the punishment of hell . But , here I will discuss the benefits of marriage for health .
   Patients with lung cancer of local small non-cell who married an advanced stage , are likely to survive longer after treatment than patients who were not married . Scientists at the University of Maryland , United States, approximately 168 patients examined the lungs of local small non-cell stage three ( types of lung cancer the most common ) .
     Who are treated with chemotherapy and radiation for 10 years . The results showed , 33 % of patients were alive 3 years later , it is the patient that they are married . While patients who have not been married only 10 % were still alive . Married female patients who survived for 3 years after treatment , whereas male patients who are single just 3 % . Single women and married men who survive the score at 25 % .
    According to lead researcher , Elizabeth Nichols MD , an expert in radiation oncology in Maryland Greenbaum Cancer Center , married status became apparent independent factor supporting patients to survive longer, although it is not known for sure why it happened . But Nichols asserts , the results of these studies indicate that social support from the people closest to , which helps patients to live a daily life , contributed greatly on the ability of patients survive cancer remedy .
    In research in Norway which was released in 2011 , of the 440,000 cancer patients in men and women know that , patients who have never married men in the know quickly died probability higher than 35 % of male patients who are already married . While on among women , patients who have never been married quickly died probability 22% higher .
   Hopefully what I say in this post is useful . Thank you for visiting. regards healthy life .

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    Benefits coconuts


    Many people who believe in the benefits of the coconut fruit very much , apart from good to reduce hypertension , detoxify , nourish the kidneys and prevent nausea . Any type coconuts have the same benefits , as long as that is still fresh .Here are some of the health benefits of coconuts for the body :
          First , coconut water for pregnant women
 Coconut water is very helpful for women who are pregnant with the first 12 weeks of gestation . Usually in this condition , women experience dizziness , nausea and dizziness . Types of green coconut is the most effective , because it can stimulate the body's immunity . So as to prevent a pregnant mother and fetus in the womb of a dangerous bacterial infection .
    Second , healthy kidneys
    Kidneys are vital organs that keep the body's electrolyte balance . Other tasks also to secrete urine from the body . Renal secretion is not smooth can cause kidney stones , kidney cleanse , so the kidneys to function properly . In addition , coconut water can also prevent kidney stones , and even can both heal . A study showed that coconut water is very effective therapy to dissolve kidney stones .
     Third , lower hypertension

    The content of potassium and potassium in coconut water , in the know can be heart healthy . Therefore , drinking coconut water without sugar , pure can reduce the risk of heart disease . Coconut water also function in patients with hypertension . Many drinking coconut water can accelerate the secretion of renal function to lower uric acid in the body .
   In addition , coconut water is also beneficial for treating diabetes , smoothing the skin , improve thyroid function , treating cholera , and can enhance the absorption of drugs .
     Fourth , detoxification
     There are several ways of detoxification , can with fasting , colon detox , liver detox , and so forth . These include detoxification premises coconut water . The process of cleansing toxins in the body in this way is very good . In addition to low cost and easy to do .
   If this therapy , body organs , especially the kidneys and gastrointestinal tract be clean and functioning properly , well conditioned body acidity , refreshing body , eliminate hunger , fatigue and discomfort in the body no longer will you feel.
    Hopefully this post can help us to continue and always maintain our health . therapy by drinking coconut water does not require expensive . May be useful for us all . amenThank you for visiting. if there is a question , in the comments .

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     The role of the father in the family


    How to build self-confidence for kid. Good morning friends, hopefully in this sunny morning , we were all given the health and always in the shadow of god . In accordance with the above theme , today I will discuss the role of a father in a quiet family . a father , he is the backbone of the family , the head of the family . It is true , the father is the leader in the family , but in addition all , the father is very influential to the development of a child's behavior .
    This is a story of a housemaid , who lives in a family . He felt at home in her employer's house , because it is considered part of the family . To his employer , he often talked about how his life in childhood . He described how happy childhood , was raised by a father and a mother who was very fond of her ,
    He tells the father figure and how the treatment is very spoiled him . The father, often took a walk , play , and buy anything in wanted. As time elapsed , when the maid already has enough supplies , and then he said goodbye to his employer . He excused himself and said , ' father , mother , forgive me . All the stories about my father was not true . I just ever want to be killed by the father . I feel jealous of the families here are very caring and attentive to the children . Hopefully the father and mother forgive my mistakes and hopefully god forgive me .
    The other story of the Spanish , because he could not find him son who ran away from home . A father , put an ad . The ad reads , ' dear Paco , met your father in front of the newspaper office , at 12 noon , on Saturday . Forgive my father , and all of them had a father forgive . On the specified day , was more than 800 people named Paco come into the office . They were looking for forgiveness from a father who was very loved .
    Two stories above shows how important father figure in the family . Research shows . The people who lost the love of a father figure , and there is no substitute , will grow with behavior disorders , suicidal , and become violent criminals . A statistic showed that 70 % of inmates with life sentences are the ones who grow up without a father .
    Then , how the orphan children who are born without a father or a child of divorced couples . Does the future make sure they're in bad ? Not necessarily . we remember how the story of the prophet Muhammad . he was orphaned , but there is always a replacement into the role of a father in his life , grandfather and uncle . Thus , the role of the father remains.
   Education experts say that the father is speaking with establishment of the foundation stone and was instrumental in opening the frontal lube ( forebrain ) , so that children are able to socialize well with the outside world . This is true magic boy or a girl . Shall there is a father who handed the care of his wife ? Leave for work before their children wake up and go home after his son was asleep . How about you ?
   Hope can be a lesson for us all . father , forgive your son , maybe I was too selfish to blame the father . I do not understand fully , how to you love me . Forgive me father . I need a father ...Thank you for visiting.

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 assist couples who are terminally ill



The best therapy is the presence and compassion in those who loved
    what is behind a " demerit " sometimes requires a sincere empathy and a remarkable to understand . What's in our minds , when we know couples who have a disease called " Schizophrenia " ? A mental illness , which is often taken people a lifelong disease . Indeed , it was a test for us and family .
   So , what causes this disease ? And how do I fix this ?
   Observe AND CARE
    Mental illness may not be seen immediately as other diseases . Mental illness does not appear in man , but which becomes the onset of the disease is within our spouse . our ignorance of the pair is the heaviest load will feel it. Problems of married life was never completed . However , we behave as the most burden , without wanting to understand what is being experienced by the couple is the attitude that makes it cornered in solitude . So, be a part of our family life . feel what they feel . Indeed , this kind of attitude that will overshadow our soul mate , and become our protector of Hell .
   LOVE FOR HAPPINESS
    Continue to believe , that the disease is curable faithful . Although people say schizophrenic illness will keep taking the medication for life . But rest assured that , no cure schizophrenia . Permission must be healing gods . In addition , guided us to always accompany our spouses , even though it was not easy .

   However , you are the right person is selected by the gods to relieve the sufferer . Although the disease should always take medication for life . However , therapy is best for them is to accompany them and support them , to be able to live a better life . And , if your partner is suffering , then you are most likely to make her happy with her ​​condition .
   This is indeed the best medicine so that he can best live in happiness . Talk heart to heart what is desired by each individual . People with psychiatric disease , does not mean they can not create the best work of his life . John Forbes Nash , is one of a schizophrenic who still survive and can live with the best .
   He became an expert in the field of mathematics , and was awarded the Nobel of his work . Therefore , Accompany them with a prayer that never end . That way they will understand that they are not alone in struggling through the day .

    Be the husband and wife are mutually supportive in the limitations and shortcomings . Life is full of meanings that we have not discovered within ourselves , only if we understand each other and to others in our family , then it is the meaning of this life . Thank you for your visit . May the gods give you and your family , a happy life and be in good health . amen

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