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Wednesday 14 May 2014
kindness-enos.blogspot.com, In my previous post about tips on treating trauma with pet therapy , tips out of trouble , tips to build team in working on this occasion , let me discuss a few facts about the negative effects of smoking .
Failure was supposed to be a teacher for us , not a disaster for us . failure is delay , not defeat . Failure is a temporary service , not a dead end .
More recently , I saw two teenage girls who were smoking . Is clearly visible , the two girls are the new smokers . As a father who has seen two daughters suffered from trying to quit smoking . I would like to give advice to both the adolescent girls . but I did not do it , because they are entitled to say that , it was all of no concern to me .
As a businessman , I look to both these young girls , that smoking would make them a hard time finding a job . Because , a lot of companies that do not accept employees who smoke . I imagine them , as potential mothers , smoking habits , very dangerous for the health of their babies . If they still smoke , and had become a mother .
As
a member of a family of twelve siblings , who now live three brothers ,
really made me to explain to both the teenage girl , that all my
brothers that smokers have already died . You need to know is , the difference of life for people who are not smokers and smokers was nineteen years old . And if the three brothers in my family right now, live the rest of
his life in accordance with that predicted , differences in life it
becomes more twenty years .
I do feel sorry for reprimanding the girls, but I did not do it . Certainly
, there are things that can be done to reprimand the community and is
responsible for the abuse of tobacco to teenagers . Do we need to observe one generation we have gone smoke ?
State officials should be aware that it's not immoral to accept
donations from tobacco companies factory , because one day we have to
pay the evils that we have done now is to countries in the world by sending
thousands of tons of cigarettes to them .
Cigarette tobacco will kill more of them , rather than marijuana and heroin . Speaking of hypocrisy , we need to examine our own values here . Addiction to smoking is really an international issue .
The
bottom line is that smoking addiction is not good for our lives ,
especially for health and our environment , depending on how we perceive
the use of smoking itself . Everything is back on ourselves.Here are some facts about the negative effects of smoking . May be useful for all of us . Thank you for visiting.
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Friday 9 May 2014
Love is a game played by two people , and both could be a winner.
kindness-enos.blogspot.com , in my previous posting about tips to build team in working, tips out of troubles, they are all doing well , On this occasion, let me share a little bit about the reference, "tips on treating trauma with pet therapy". Facts about Elizabeth loves Oscar , maybe it sounds not as important news . But for me is not so . Elizabeth is a special girl , she was born with mental retardation , and this life gives her a lot of challenges . One of the challenges that frustrated is a fear of dogs . Only barking dogs can make it scream .
It made Elizabeth did not dare go out in the neighborhood . Because many dog roam . Elizabeth's life more uncomfortable , wherever she is .However , at some point , something changed her life . Right on his birthday . Elizabeth got a gift that completely changed her fears . The prize is Oscar , mini dog , a type of dachshund ( long -bodied dog breed , and short legs ) . For Elizabeth , Oscar is a cute dog , and have long hair . Elizabeth was not scared by a little pup named Oscar .
Elizabeth felt excited and happy with Oscar . A few weeks later , a woman came to her , Cindy Oates and therapy
dogs , golden retriever types ( different dogs have fur golden color ) , named emmit . Emmit is the big dog , and could be in order .
Cindy
purpose is , that Elizabeth felt comfortable with the type of dog , by
giving a brief command , now Elizabeth already feel comfortable
with emmit , as well as other dogs . Now , the quality of life Elizabeth has experienced great changes , Elizabeth no longer afraid. And in fact , no longer fear he felt.
Everywhere
, all over the country , pet , especially dogs , can provide a tool for
children , adults , and the elderly , can become therapy animals . Pet therapy is one of the fastest growing areas in the United States . In fact , demand for therapy dogs for adults exceeds supply .
Currently , the goal of therapy dogs are trained to the hospital , to
help the patient in doing various things , which they have never done
before , due to accidents , drug addiction , or trauma .
It is true , someone else can give you pleasure . However , happiness comes when you do things for other people .
therefore , involve yourself in a pet therapy program .In fact , why entertain your dog when you are sad . The reason is , because the dog is not trying to figure out why you are sad .
Thus , references to the tips treating trauma , with pet therapy or animal assisted . Good tips that I share this useful to you all. thank you for visiting.
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Posted by Unknown
Tuesday 6 May 2014
kindness-enos.blogspot.com, in my previous posts, I've discussed about tips out of trouble. how to deal with the disaster, and the change is good for you. on this occasion, let me give you a Tips to build a
team in the works , No problem , if you resign from a position . However , do
not ever resigned from employment .
Major surgery , not only requires a skilled surgeon , but
also in need of skilled assistants , so that the operation running properly .
They function as a team . No one can carry out a major operation with alone ,
even though he is an expert in the field .
In a large hospital , a new head nurse , is serving his first
assignment . He leads all the other nurses in the operating room . He takes
full responsibility for carrying out all the duties of nurses . When the
operation is complete , the surgeon said , "Okay , now we close the cut .
Please sewing thread " . The new head nurse replied , " the doctor ,
you'd use the 12 sponge , whereas we have issued 11 " . The surgeon said
that , all the sponge has been issued , and ready to sew . The head nurse ,
said " doctor , before you use the sponge 12 , and only eleven were issued
" . With exasperation , the surgeon replied , " I 'll will be
responsible " . Hearing the answer, the head nurse angry and stomped his
feet , and said , " doctor ,this patient Would you think ! Hearing the
head nurse said so , the surgeon smiled , and lifted one of him legs , and
showed that sponge to the twelve . The surgeon said to the head nurse , "
you pass " integrity has been tested and passed with good grades .
The question is , how many of us , if it is in the same
situation , would bear the risk of snapping the surgeon , when in thinking
occurred miscalculation . However , the head nurse feels that the patient's
safety and lives at stake , and he no doubt did the right thing . When in the
review in the long run , that's the best way to reach the top and stay afloat .
From the story above , there is a wise words of ROGERStaubach , " the team builder is life tea bags , they will be effective
when the water is hot " .
Posted by Unknown
Monday 5 May 2014
We're on the same side
kindness-enos.blogspot.com , Take a moment to answer these questions , will help you practice what you have learned . Into
action and will motivate you to consider the interests of others , with
whom you live and how you can provide services to them . On this precious occasion , let me divide my favorite story .
There is a story , " a little boy disturbed by three unruly children , big and disruptive children . Quickly, the little boy drawing a line on the ground . Then he retreated , and looked at the child who bullies her most. The little boy said , " now let 's skip the line " . Confidently , the bully is over the line , and ready to hit the little boy. Then , for some reason , this little boy smiled and said , " now we 're on the same side . "
Physically , they are on the same side , but emotionally , they are still far away . Intelligence possessed by the child , he took the opportunity to put himself on the same side . This is a very effective way to cope with situations most critical , and is a major step in solving any problems that arise .
The meaning of the lessons that can be taken from the story of this little boy is :First , whether the situation is that between parent and child , with labor management , teachers and students . Actually , they are the part of same . and the best way to win is a win-win .Second , a sense of humor can eliminate barriers in communication , and to reveal the human side of you , and sympathy .Third , sometimes you can strive for the big bullies ( those who have the power , leader ) moved his desk over there . This allows for co-workers , students , or employees can clearly
understand , that they really are on the same side , and open to listen
to each other 's ideas , which they can propose from both sides .Fourth
, it is very important that you always maintain your perspective ,
being open , and do justice when you look at other people's lives .
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Posted by Unknown
Thursday 1 May 2014
They are all doing well, kindness-enos.blogspot.com, You
have been given the right of citizenship , in the State which is not
the same as any country in the world , with the opportunities available
to you , which is not the same with any country , which we told you was
hard work , nothing is given free of charge to you , use your education , and rescue those still trapped in poverty and violence . Above all , never lose confidence in the American , all the mistakes done those before you , to fix, not for cursing . ( General Colin Powell )
New Orleans , there is a remarkable family , living in a slum . They are a family Lundy Smith , Susie Mae Lundy and Willie J. Smith . Willie J. Smith , was a Baptist preacher , who raised nine children were successful . This family , an example , skills in entrepreneurship , which was
built with the base , confidence , commitment , and hard work .
Every child has responsibilities that have been set . At
the age of 5 years , the sixth son, is expected to serve and to work
cleaning up the Exxon gas station , and a family-owned workshops . One of the boys it was Larry , now has 31 outlets pizza hut . Since childhood they are taught that " what you eat at night , depending on what you do during the day .
Encouragement or motivation like that , they are very easy to understand and very effective to be applied in their lives . In addition to Larry , there was Michael , a Houston oil executive car . Harold , a president of Grambling State University in Louisiana . Mark and Wilton , a psychiatric counselor in Houston . Nell , an elementary school teacher in Houston . Lloyd , a vice president of Goodwill Industris in Beaumont , texas . Jackie , a nurse in the emergency room in New Orleans . And Yolanda , was an accountant in New Orleans .
They all are the people who work hard , productive , and they start their career since childhood . In
1978 , these children lead a fundraising campaign , which they managed
to collect $ 65,000 , to build a church , which is now led by their
father . Of these children , has given Willie J. Smith , 14 grandchildren , and 3 great-grandchildren .
Apparently, the American dream is still alive for those who want to work hard , and be sure the American dream . But , the important thing is if they have parents who are guiding and directing them to the goals and dreams since childhood
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Thursday 17 April 2014
the solutions
A winner was brave enough to admit a mistakes , smart
enough to benefit from it , and strong enough to correct them .
Every problem has a solution , and the best solutions must be equally beneficial . Howard Putnam in his book entitled " The wind of turbulence " telling a story as follows . Baylor Hospital in Dallas , had major problems. Because it does not have enough nurses willing on weekends , because everyone wanted to pass the time with his family . But there are also a number of nurses , who have children , who want to spend as much time with their children .
In
most cases , nurses are married , have a husband who is working on
Monday through Friday , even single mothers want to spend time with
small children . So the question is , can we meet the needs of these nurses ? Head of the hospital to ask , how can we help these women get what they want ? How can we help our nurses full time , to get what they want ?
The
solution is due to work on weekends generally considered overtime ,
they decided to make Saturday and Sunday to take turns on duty together
12 hours . And they paid for the nurse in charge on Saturday and Sunday . Thus, the nurse on duty on weekends was happy to get a reward. Meanwhile , the nurses who spend the weekend with his family too pleased .
It is a win- win . And hospitals and patients are also happy . That's good leadership .
The
message is , examine alternative solutions that you have, look at what
the problem is , and ask yourself, if the solution is the problem? Of the many stories , every problem has a solution . In fact , in every single issue , there are two solutions . As in the story above , overtime nurses , and nurses who are equally profitable holiday .
You need to know , as difficult as any problem , note the problem , ponder if you are having trouble . Sometimes you need someone to help you .Thank you for visiting.
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Wednesday 16 April 2014
DAYS FULL OF MEMORIES , Today is the tomorrow that makes you optimistic about the day yesterday. The question, "What will you do today to make tomorrow as bright as when you expect today?
There is a joke that is very popular, "a former athlete with a guffaw say, the older I am getting better"! that statement more true than in the fictive, and in a certain sense, that was a good statement. Clearly show that the person concerned look back and reminisce the good stuff from the bad things in life.
Attitudes like that, can be sure will live long and happy life and healthier. Realistically, most of our memories of "memorable day" does not correspond to the facts. On the 150 years ago, life expectancy for more than 40 years. Today, the life expectancy of nearly 70 years.
When I was young, polio is a disease that is common. The parents, fear of polio on their children, when their children play outside in the hot season. Today, after the vaccine is found, polio was now no longer contagious. Today, more than 80% of millionaires in America are first generation millionaires.
Achievement
woman, respected in the world of business, medicine, science,
education, athletics, and other fields, which in previous years in
denial about. In America, these days, more minorities are educated scholars and occupy top priority in the business world. It is not at all mean to say that it's the same.
However, it is clear that we are experiencing a lot of progress. So far, success is always defined as a journey, not a destination, but we need the right direction. If
the problem with criminal acts, abuse of drugs, and violence rarely
remember it, meaning that most people do
not want their bad memories.
Everything is better today than yesterday. As a nation, we have problems, but we are actively looking for a solution. I will give you suggestions to enjoy today and look to the future with optimism and hope.
In fact, the good memories will erase bad memories. Because of this, most people remove their grief by remembering their wonderful memories. The days are full of memories are the days that will make you feel alive again.
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Monday 14 April 2014
The characteristics of a winner, Admitting mistakes is the beginning , correct it is a step of progress , followed up is successful .
Over the years I have spoken at several thousand events of various kinds of descriptions conversation . . I 've talked to groups consisting of 12 people , and also to 60 thousand people . Consistently, I have noted a tendency of all listeners , especially in
sales organizations as well as conference leadership or management .Without
exception , most people who have a high reputation , is present in the
front row , depending on the vision and where they sit . People
who already know everything , or who feel that the show is just a waste
of time , or they 've felt ever heard , definitely arrive late or sit
in the backseat . Home early and it also includes the people who like to talk with people who are on his side.I
have also observed , when people like this go to an athletic event or
to a place of entertainment , they tend to want the best seats . They generally come much earlier and annoyed when there is interference from others .I
tell you all this to say that the people who mean the front row to come
to events or inspirational education with great expectations . They come in a state of readiness to learn and a lot of notes . A
study at Harvard Univesity revealed that the people who most benefit
from the meetings : 1) come up with the expectations of getting great
ideas 2 ) lots of notes and 3 ) discuss with colleagues what they have
learned and compare each note . Thus they reinforce what they have learned and take the things they miss from colleagues. In short these people are winners because they plan to win , prepare
to win and expect to win and that's a good approach to life .You would not be a smart if you bad attitude ( JOHN MAXWELL )
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Sunday 13 April 2014
Expectations of future
Everything will be better , for those who take advantage of all events as well as possible . Doctor Jhon Maxwell said , that if there is hope for the future , then there is power at the moment . The reason is very simple , hope for the future have a dramatic impact on your thoughts at this time .
Thought
you today will determine your achievement today , and your
accomplishments today , possess a direct influence on your future . Doctor
Tony Campolo of eastern collage in pensylvania say , that your past is
important , because it will bring you right now which way . however , as important as your past is still very critically important how you see the future .
In essence , he said , that he understands your problems in the past . Dark past , suffering , chaotic household . All of these are events that can make your traumatic , which will affect the way you think and how you behave . Doctors Campolo , did not deny the influence of your past . Because many of the events are very important . However , he said that , everything was very influential on will change your future .
John
Johnson is the publisher of ebony magazine , and is one of the 400
richest people in America , said that "everyone is not limited by their
origin , their race , or from whom they were born in , but will be
limited by the size of their expectations of future . Do not forget your past , so you can focus on these days , make it as motivation that will drive you to a better future .
The past is a memory that will never be forgotten just like that . Wherever
you go, wherever you place now , do not ever forget your true self ,
the reality of life with a face full of optimistic , tomorrow is a dream
, no dream is realized without you doing anything at this time . And today is a reality . The fact of the picture of your future , and the shadow of your past .Thank you for visiting , I hope you are successful and happy always . amen
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Friday 4 April 2014
We got the happiness of the people close to us , and we can grow with people who are not too close to usIn today's world full of people and companies change , peace work as an employee or employees are not guaranteed anymore . While you have to face the fact that you have to make a change . You should also be aware that many positive changes and provide benefits to individuals and businesses .
There are things that you can change and some things you can not change . For example , the things you can not change , your birth or by who gave birth to you . And
in fact , if you are born a person who is white , then you will forever
remain white , and if you are born a person who is black , then you
will forever remain black . And you also can not change things that have already happened . You can not change a whisper in the day yesterday . However , you can change your future by changing your way of thinking . If you've got altering these days , then you can change your life and
your livelihood to make tomorrow a better and more meaningful .Example : as a high school student in yazoo city , in Mississippi , table tennis is one of my favorite sports . To be honest , I can beat most of my friends . Then , on a day when a new student , who always beat me . I used to use the handle " three finger " , to beat my friends . While my enemies or new students , using force grip " handshake " , which is a new style . With the style of " three fingers " , I felt it was a good fight with and play with a vengeance . Then , I decided to change my grip style , was the result initially embarrassing , my friends can beat me easily . However , after two weeks I train the new style , I started to get used to using it . And finally I can beat the " new student " is. I argue that , I probably would not beat him if I do not change my grip style . Although at first I was a very bad game .
Message , analyze your situation , have you sought the maximum , and if you have done better with the current procedure ? If it is , do not be afraid to take two steps back , if you can finally drove three steps .Said a boss when to fire employees , " behold the bright side , you always said you wanted to be an entrepreneur " .
( By : Zig Ziglar )
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Thursday 3 April 2014
You achieve customer satisfaction while selling items that are not returned to a customer who returned to you . ( STANLEY MARCUS )
His
name is wally amos , he built a business with a capital of $ 100
million , " famous amos cookie is " , the name of the business which he
built . From a series of unfavorable , he lost his business , fame and fortune , he fell in with a $ 1 million debt . Worse yet , he loses his right to use his business with a name that makes it famous .
But he did not lose the things that make it a success from the start . He maintained his sense of humor and a flexible attitude , optimistic and confident . as in thought , he got up and be successful . He
built a new business with the name " wally amos cookies chip'n present "
people magazine article writing and designing a Fitz & Floyd cookie
jar chip'n JC penny dolls marketed chip'n cookies , and everyone was pleased with the return of the father of amos . Everyone , except the new owner " famous amos " . As a result , there was a court action , and once again amos father lost his business .
Wally said , he became famous and rich , and have to pay for it . Right now he is on tour to promote his new book , "man with no name " is getting overwhelming response . He also returned to the cake business , . And the name of his new company " uncle no name ' . And once again , he got up from failure and success are much greater than before . It has been very clear that he is a good example of someone who in the drop but not faint .
He fight with persistence and tenacity are the same as those in the show it on the first attempt . And as suspected , he again managed to build his business . Everyone knows that the host wally amos is a classic example of never giving up . With her confidence and perseverance he always got up .
There is an old expression " a person who does not want on the beat may not defeated " . " The only people who can not be defeated by failures are people who never gave up " . And this statement is actually proved by " uncle with no name ' .
Hopefully this article gives you the motivation and inspiration to keep trying , to rise from failure , and do not despair . Thank you for visiting.
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the same way , everything is not taking me anywhere in my life , I can
say that I have to wade through long walks but I do not find it to be
anywhere . Does this path have a heart ? If " yes " then this is a good way , anyway if " no " then the path is not useful . Both roads were not guide you anywhere , but that one had the heart while others do not . One way to give you an enjoyable trip for you to follow that path , as long as you become one with it . While others will make you cursing your life . ( The quotation from the teaching of Don Juan, a Yaqui of knowledge . By Carlos Castaneda )
As for the message you want to convey in the above quote is from , you all have a path that suits your soul . To find out if you search path is the right path , ask yourself . If you feel your life and needs are met , then you can be sure that the path you are on the right track .
However , if your heart is empty , hungry , and in conflict , look deeper into that soul you 're trying to say something . So
many people who feel well-established in a way that does not have a
heart that seems reasonable , but in fact it is not a natural way . Others may try to convince you that you are the person who is impossible to live your dreams .
It 's not impossible , in fact , the satisfaction of the soul is the only target that will bring true happiness . And that is the goal of every person . Never give up in following your truth . Do not compromise on things that you know as the real thing . When you accept that you are living in this world to feel happy then your life will change and your heart will be fulfilled . Then , when you get to the end of the trip , you will definitely say " good job " .Life is a long journey that must be passed every human being , every life . Your life will give you two roads, good and bad . And only you can decide which path to take . Thank you for visiting
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Wednesday 2 April 2014
At
this time you 're dealing with a possibility of greatness , but you do
not realize it because your attention is distracted by thoughts about
the limitations . Your friends , colleagues , or family members may have a life full
of talent and the Arm various exceptional ability , but if you pay more
attention to their shortcomings , then the beauty they possess will shy
away from you .
Then , you will always wonder why people are so disappointing , and why your life is always disappointing . Meanwhile , the wealth that you have not noticed and remain hidden . Sometimes, by chance you may find a great people , when their souls in a dismal state . When you look at them , you may not be able to think about them , about their bitter experiences .
However
, if you look carefully , you will definitely find the advantages that
they have, then you will see them through the eyes of God , that every
human being has created a shortage and also the advantages that are not
owned by the other man . When you love and believe in someone ( including yourself ) . Then you will pull out of his prowess .
Look at your loved ones with a higher vision , then they will fulfill that vision . Give them a reputation , so that they can make as a standard of living . Do not ever give up on a person or a business . Because there is no single thing that lived , unless you admit it will fail .
There is a glimmer of hope in every case , if you've got to believe it then you can evoke a sense of despair pad every person . You and all the people in the premises god made lots of
advantages and disadvantages , if you've realized it , of course you and
everyone you meet will share and help each other with each other ..
Excess you far more compared with your shortcomings . You
can remove all those advantages by focusing your attention on your
strengths , your spirit or positive thoughts , not on your weaknesses . Stop remembering your mistakes , and achieve your goals . God will never give up on yourself , God will always pay attention to every prayer , hope and effort that you seek . God saw you in accordance with your expectations , and not as you fear . When it comes time , you find what you are looking for .
Expand the same confidence to the people that you meet , start with yourself , then success will find you. Continue to move forward , to achieve the future , believe in your ability , believe in yourself . Keep trying , pray , be patient , and persevering . Good luck
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Tuesday 1 April 2014
HIDDEN BEAUTY IN YOURSELF
No heaven can come to you if your heart is not able to find peace today . Take heaven . There is no peace in the future is hidden at the time and today . Then take the peace . Life is very generous giver . But you are rewarded by living only from the outside . Divert your eyes from the outside , then you will get the beauty of life with love , peace and full policy .
Life is so full of meaning and purpose , so full of beauty , . Therefore , having the courage to get it , only that , but you have
the courage and the knowledge that we are all living under the auspices
of the earth as a wanderer who walked across a foreign land .
Whenever you feel stuck in fear or confusion . Think of that when you feel fear or confusion that is interpretation , not fact . Arabs interpret , words used to express the " problem " is translated as " different views " .
If you are having problems , then you are in the draw to find another perspective to look at this issue . The problem , is not always hurt you , but if you look from the
other side , then you will consider it as a friend who will help you
towards the stage and mature adult .
As
an author , Richard Bach stated " there is no single thing that is a
problem without a gift for you . " When you discover and appreciate the
gift then the problem goes away . Every word , thought , or action that you generate will confirm either the problem or solution .
Many
people defend limitation limitations because it offers security for
them , but ultimately they just kept letting themselves trapped in a
world that is small and painful . Make yourself as advisor for yourself . Do not ever get yourself cornered .
Hold your vision with powerful , then you will create your goals . And
when you are tempted to regard something as a " problem " , then the problems suppose that , as a project , a challenge or an opportunity . Next you 'll be on your way toward a solution .
You do more than you think . great love , open yourself and fill your soul . You are not alone , keep going, then you 'll be where you want .
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