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psychological in children

Posted by Motivasi hidup Monday 10 March 2014 0 komentar
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psychological in children


   In the tradition of a tribe in Africa , when a woman realized she was pregnant . He went with some friends to a place in the jungle . Together they pray and meditate until they hear ( in prayer and meditation they are ) a typical baby singing . When they are already familiar with the baby singing voice , they then sang with a melodious voice .
   After that , they returned to their village , and they teach that song to everyone who was there . When the child was born , people gathered and sang the song. And when the boy had started to school days , people gather and sing the same song .
   When the boy had grown up , once again all the people gathered and sang the same again . When married , everyone sang the song. Just before his death , the people and the child associates gathered and sang the song of precision when the child will be born .
   On another occasion , in which the people in the village are also singing the same song . If on one day in the course of his life , the child commits a crime or an act outside its social fairness , then he will be brought to the middle of the village . There all the villagers make a circle , and sing the same song around the child.
   A friend is one who knows you chant and sing to you when you yourself forget it .
   The impression conveyed in the story above is that your soul has its own song . Your energy and special purpose dictated by talent , talents , skills , desires and your views . When you feel happy and act on the basis of the feeling of pleasure that, then your heart will be fulfilled and your life will be fun . And conversely , when you lose touch of your liking , then you will feel empty , your life feels frustrating and you will wonder what you're doing in life .
   In fact , when you made ​​was not thinking clearly because of fear and obstacles in your life , your singing is still alive in you . Twang tone is still strong in your life . When you face difficulties , various twists and setbacks of life , your soul guide you from the inside , forcing you to keep going and reaching the light of happiness .
   When you face a big challenge , the knowledge within you come forward with a force that has never existed before , all the lessons you bring your life to move back into the rhythm of your soul .
   Others may seek to influence the order you do not you sing but they sing . If you do that then your life is full of flavor not like and you will lose your voice . To get it back , get back in touch with you and did according to the truth on the basis of the truth .
   You can help others by reminding them of who they are . Dropping the dignity of others, mutual show of force and accuse each other , an act that is not true , these actions encourage people away from their happiness .
   When someone is in a state of distress or there is a conflict , help them to remember who they are , and they do not need to hurt others . sincere expressions will bring , healing , relief and peace . Remember your singing or in this case yourself , your position and your home state so you have your own appeal and would be a fun person . You will also find peace within yourself .

    Hopefully this post useful for all of us , hopefully there are things that can be learned and hopefully inspire our lives for the better . amen
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Tips and how to overcome depression

Posted by Motivasi hidup Tuesday 4 March 2014 0 komentar

 Depression

Tips and how to overcome depression
   Tips and how to overcome depression, If you ever experience feelings of sadness , excessive fatigue after the move , lost interest and enthusiasm diminished , lazy activity , disruption of sleep patterns , . Maybe you are currently experiencing depression such thing .
   Depression is a condition that is more of a feeling of sadness . When a depressed person to cause the disruption of daily social activities , then it is referred to as depressive disorders . Eliminate depressed person is not easy , especially in a natural depression that has been many years . A person who experienced it , if not handled quickly it will lead to mental disorders . Even the most severe is able to trigger them to commit suicide .
   There are several symptoms that can lead to a person experiencing depression . Among others : in live by someone who meant so much to her life , reduced stamina and often feel tired , increase or decrease in appetite , increased or reduced desire for sleep , stress , irritability , frustration , reduced sexual desire and do not have expectations of future .

   Causes of depression

   Depression can happen to anyone , whether young or old age , and at any time since the depression can appear suddenly . The main cause of depression , there are a few things , among others, as follows :1 . Less positive thinking
     When someone is depressed , they feel that something bad is going to happen , and it will happen again and again . for those who think negatively and tend to feel depressed , everything that happens is a reflection of the problems and setbacks . changes in a person or a change in environment , a reasonable changes in patients with depression . 
2 . Lack of self-confidence .People who are depressed have always felt less confident , they assume that everything happens as their failure . Even a small mistake can they consider to be a big problem.    

     3 . More attention to the error in life.
     we must have made ​​a mistake , and some people make more mistakes . People who are depressed over their minds focused on the mistakes they do . As a result, they create a negative impression on the error .
     4 . Feeling depressed because of various obligations in life situations like this , people always think what they should do and that should be done . As a result , they feel burdened by various commitments .
    5 . feeling weak
The problem for those who are depressed they feel that there is no single thing that can satisfy them . In fact , when they realize they can overcome their mood , they do not do it . Advice from friends and family , they consider useless . One thing that they feel is , they feel inadequate or inspired by something . 
    6 . Overcoming depression with self-reliance. We can overcome depression with the help of other people , but for those who are unable to seek treatment , depression can be overcome by relying on yourself.There are several ways to do so , among other things :1 . Accepting yourself and your weaknesses
     If you are not able to cope with depression alone , the best thing you have to do to receive your shortcomings . You have to accept yourself with what you feel , and do the things you can do .
 2 . Know your thoughts and your negative feelings .
     As for how you can do in these circumstances is to record your negative thoughts every day for some time . Then you can identify the negative things that has always been a load of your mind . By identifying the negative thought patterns , you are able to prevent , and repair can even stop the cycle of depression .    
        A few posts today , may be useful . Hopefully we can overcome all the problems in our daily lives . I hope that we are all blessed life in a healthy and prosperous . amen 

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how to Identify the problem and complete

Posted by Motivasi hidup Monday 3 March 2014 0 komentar
how to Identify the problem and complete
  Identify the problem and complete


Good morning my beloved blog world . Today I will submit a post about " PROBLEM " , of course , every life has its own problems . Whether it be sickness , poverty , failure and so on . Here , I 'll give you a solution how to deal with these problems . We need to consider when it got into trouble is thinking positive , calm , and open in the face. Well , we started the discussion .
beware of simple solutions or false to complex problems . When you see someone who suggested the solutions Get down . For example , take the path banned for being rich , or go to a witch doctor to seek wealth .
   The problem is part of our daily lives . Ponder this : if there is no problem , most of us would be out of work. In fact , the more problems we have and the greater the problem . The greater our value to our employer .
   As for these problems , a variety of shapes , the problem is very small and simple as opening the ketchup bottle cap . Other problems are unusually large , such as a child or spouse is sick or badly injured , which led to complications that continuously every day . Success comes when we live as much as possible and learn to handle the affairs of our personal problems as a small affair .
   Business executives can handle challenges and solve problems with amazingly good . He was quick in taking decisions thanks to years of experience . Similarly, the housewife , with small children in the house are having problems every day . Many people are using methods which are not productive to deal with the problem .
   They refuse to acknowledge the existence of these problems , denies responsibility for those problems , pretending that these problems will be solved by itself if they ignore these problems or to be indifferent and do not care about that issue .
   The first step in solving the problem by recognizing the existence of the problem . Next , we determine whether the problem is our responsibility or not . If the problem it is our responsibility , then we must determine how serious the problem was . After that , we immediately take action if the problem is solved simply and quickly , or develop and prioritize action plans if the solution is more difficult and requires a lot of time .
   Solving problems , becoming a very important part of who we are , when growing towards maturity level or to the subsequent career in the company . I encourage you to take the time to define the problem quickly , learn the skills to analyze quickly , and remember . If not because there are problems in your life , your position may be in need again . Solving problems is the core of most of the work .
   Said a little boy to his mother " mom should be proud to have children who are brave enough to bring home report cards are like that . After all , mothers know that I have never cheated , "Do not think that the problem is something that destroys our lives , but quite the contrary , it is a problem stages to adulthood . Every person and every life has its own problems , from mother to get into the swing grave , we still find the problem . Even the dead have no problems . So , from now on identify your problem , and complete .
    so post today , may be useful and hopefully we can resolve the problems in our lives . If you liked this post , comment , so I can identify my mistake . That's all and thank you for visiting.
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lee harvey oswald

Posted by Motivasi hidup Sunday 2 March 2014 0 komentar
 How to overcome low self-esteem / lack of confidence


        
lee harvey oswald
Lee Harvey Oswald , was one of the thousands of people who have low self-esteem or lack of confidence. may be in us have experienced a lack of confidence when faced with something . Lee Harvey Oswald started his life with all its shortcomings and lack of luck . His mother was a dominant big man who is hard to love someone .
   as a baby , he was never getting the love , the love and attention of her parents , because her mother and father's day's work was dead . Since childhood , he called his mother banned while in the workplace . So he tends to feel lonely . As a teenager , his friends do not like it . Because he has a face that is bad and the ugly .
   He failed to do well in school , and girls do not like it . Finally, after growing up , Oswald pegi abroad , where he found a wife . Women are born of illegitimate relations . Then he brought him to America . Life in a family , not as in expect it . Once again he failed. His wife is a lot of demand , and arrange his life . Finally he got kicked out of the house .
    Feeling useless , he realized how bad life in nature. Finally he took a rifle in his home barn . And go to a convention hall . Through the window he fired two rifle bullets right about the president 's body jhon fitzgerald knnedy . President of America on 22 November 1963.
   Oswald personal problems , certainly not a reason to behave rudely . However , understanding of the attitudes and chaos within him , he helps us understand not only a murderer , but as a failure and should in pity . Every day of his life , from childhood until the end of his life always feel lonely . Oswald realizes that her low self unbelievable .
Oswald realizes that her low self unbelievable . So that , as often happens , a sense of sadness turns into an explosion of anger 
      Every age has its own threat in the face of self-esteem issues . from infancy to old age , there are always problems in every step of life . Thus , if low self-esteem is so prominent . we must ask yourself " why " ? why so many people feel in love and does not want ? Why at home and in school more lead to a sense of hopelessness and self-loathing, rather than in respect and confidence.
   Questions arise as this would mean a lot to any parents who want to protect their children from the harmful effects inferiority . Therefore, parents should pay more attention to their children from an early age to adolescence . In order for them to grow with full confidence . possibility , the story of Lee Harvey Oswald could help us make amends, the extent to which low self-esteem that we have.
      So first post today , may be useful and hopefully this story can be an inspiration for us and our children in order not to experience the feelings experienced by the story .Look forward to the next post more interesting .
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HOW TO FORGIVE IS EASY AND WONDERFUL

Posted by Motivasi hidup Wednesday 12 February 2014 0 komentar
HOW TO FORGIVE IS EASY AND WONDERFUL

    HOW TO FORGIVE IS EASY AND WONDERFUL, Forgive is easy and wonderful,when teased out a good name , whether that comes in the hearts and minds ? Maybe he would be offended and angry , even sued the law for the sake of clear his good name . What if this happened to slander a believer ? What attitude should he take? Religion of Islam teaches that a believer is willing to forgive and hold anger with patience .
           Within the scope of civilization Qur'an and sunna should be the main principle determines a truth and goodness . For god 's revelation has been proven capable of realizing the noble human civilization , including those facing morals prevailing unjust . This trait is very noble . Islam praises those who adorn themselves with a forgiving nature .
      He will be incorporated into the class of people that will best achieve the love of god almighty . Islam does allow oppressed people to reply with the penalty . Supreme God in the Qu'ran letter explaining ash- shura 39-43 retaliation for a crime that is similar reply . But this is always the perfect religion encourages each person to give forgiveness . Because, god almighty it is calling such things in priority .
       Indeed , if the criminal action in reply to the crime then will give birth to the nature of envy and resentment . However , if the crime in reply to goodness it would extinguish the fire of wrath , appease the soul , and cleans stains revenge . Being a forgiving person and family is the fruit of faith and devotion to the supreme god . Here's a story that bias was a model for us " mentioned that the news had reached an imam ahmad on neighbor relates to an chided . However , the news does not make it angry or retaliate .
     Then he called his son , and sent to prepare a plate of fruit . The food was deliver to neighbors who have chided . This is the noble qualities that make a family more precious in the sight of men and in the presence of god creator . Most of us can not behave like the example above . In fact , as a believer we should have these properties .
    Understanding of the nature of forgiveness reflect good morals . That's the nature of an underlying faith and true affection . A proud and like to pride themselves would be hard to be noble like that . Conversely , a believer becomes easy to act like that , knowing the pleasure of Allah reward is much greater than just the satisfaction of replying to obey similar vices with vices . Moreover, not forgiving at all will reduce the position and make a person nor contemptible . Even make it glorious .

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how to be merciful

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MEANING OF FORGIVENESS

Meaning of forgiveness. Forgive it feels heavy , but not forgive also give adverse effects are not mild . people who carry grudges tantamount to carry the load all the time . This heart will ache when remembering someone who has hurt us . especially if you meet in person .
      The pain in the heart that it really is even more handcuff our own souls . our potential is not optimal due to the heavy load . Thinking was no longer clear , always assume the negative . forgive though often breeds glory , often feel the weight of our own doing . which appears precisely reactive stance . when someone hurts us the reasons of fairness, we too reflexively responded , even less so in fact redundant .
 That's a big disaster the deadly growth of our faith . the more we can close the life of grace god almighty . not a sign of faith to love his brother ? our good deeds can be burned because there an error's in people who have not we forgive .
     on the contrary , to forgive , there is an opportunity for us to become better . to forgive , people who had hostile can become close friends . in fact , it could be a staunch defender of the opponent , because they see the greatness of soul to forgive .
     for we are able to forgive , the load hanging in the soul will be separated . we feel regardless of the shackles . our souls became more peaceful . forgive the mistakes of others does not mean we let their mistakes . nor we assume that error as truth .
    we forgive the person, but we have to assume his guilt as an error . people who are not willing to forgive and continue to question will not be able to take the benefit and wisdom for the good life . heart pain also showed us less patient and willing to the provisions god almighty .
     to not lose the opportunity to forgive us achieve degrees of glory . if we are able to overcome the ego , we will be able to overcome the dam mater to take lessons . Therefore, when we remember the angry gods for mercy and multiply .
 Clear conscience and airy will be able to understand the situation of the other person 's point of view . why they do injustice like that ? probably due to their ignorance or because they are pinched due to the circumstances .
     The event could be a mirror that is more open our hearts . we are grateful to Allah has reminded us through what happened . the clarity of our hearts can take the wisdom behind what happened to us . since no one event that happened to have been in the desired except by the gods . see the wisdom behind the incident .Forgiving  will vacate the souls and hearts soften . Let us learn to forgive by forgiving beauty benefits .

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