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Winners don't do things differently, they just do them differently.

Posted by Motivasi hidup Thursday 18 April 2024 0 komentar
  Several flies were seen flying partying on top of a trash can in front of a house. One day, the homeowner's son came out and didn't close the door again

      
    Then a fly was seen rushing into the house. The fly went straight to a dining table full of delicious food. "I'm tired of the rubbish, it's time to enjoy fresh food," he said. 
     Once full, the fly rushed to get out and flew towards the door when he entered, but it turned out that the glass door was closed tightly.
     The fly sat for a moment on the door glass looking at his friends who were waving their hands as if asking him to join them again.
     The fly flew around the glass, occasionally jumping and crashing into the glass, relentlessly trying to get out of the glass door. 
     The fly crawled around the glass from top to bottom and from left to right back and forth, so over and over again. It was getting late, the fly looked tired and hungry.
     The next morning, the fly was seen lying limp on the floor. Not far from that place, a group of red ants could be seen walking out of their nest in search of food. And when they found the helpless fly, they all gathered together and bit the fly's body until it died. 
    The herd of ants carried the poor fly's carcass to their nest. On the way, a small ant asked his older companion, “What's wrong with this fly, sir? Why is he dying?” “Oh..., that happens often, there are flies that die in vain like this.
      Actually, they had tried, he had really struggled to get out of the glass door. "But when he couldn't find a way out, he became frustrated and exhausted until he finally died and became our dinner menu.
    " The little ant seemed to nod, but was still curious and asked again, "I still don't understand, isn't the fly trying hard? Why doesn't it work?” Still walking and carrying the dead fly, the old ant answered, "The fly is someone who never gives up and has tried many times, only he does it in the same way." 
     The old ant ordered his colleagues to stop for a moment as he continued his words, but this time with a more serious expression and tone.
     "Remember, young people, if you do something in the same way but expect different results, then your fate will be like this fly. 
     ” Winners don't do things differently, they just do them differently.



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IT'S HARD TO HAVE A GOOD WIFE

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 ٱلسـلام عليكم ورحمة ٱلله وبركاته

 IT'S HARD TO HAVE A GOOD WIFE


 This is strange. But it's true and happens a lot. Lessons for husbands (including me personally). I see repeatedly... that one of the things a husband is often not ready to face is: Have a Good Wife.

   


 Eh, isn't that a good wife's dream? That's right. If we talk about wishful thinking, everyone will agree. And if we talk about theory, how many men want to have a pious wife, perfect, good inside and out.

      But when you actually have something like this... it turns out that many husbands are not ready to accompany them. 

    His wife likes going to the Koran and rather likes it. I don't even want to hang out. His wife loves giving alms, she grumbles. 

    In fact, sometimes alms use the wife's own assets. The wife thinks that alms is the opening of the door to fortune. Meanwhile, her husband thought, "don't do too much... then we'll have problems ourselves." When his wife is happy to remind him of goodness. 

    Her husband said, "it's noisy... I know that too." When his wife wanted to encourage him to focus on preparing for the affairs of the afterlife. 

    The husband still measures everything in terms of profit and loss in world matters. When the wife is patient and obedient and stays at home to take care of herself, it is sometimes considered a loophole that can be exploited to try to mischievously play with other women.

     Seeing the phenomenon above, I tried to find out why that is...? It turns out... maybe because the man's ego is very high. He doesn't want his wife to be smarter and more powerful than him.

     He wanted to, if possible, be the one to know first. He was the good one first. If possible, he is the most pious and pious person in the house. Don't do anything else first. 

    But unfortunately, busy earning a living often means he doesn't have time to study. I don't have time to read the Koran and increase my knowledge.

     And without realizing it ended up being left behind. He wanted to... but couldn't. So wives... if you have studied, don't show it as if you are smarter than your husband. Wallahu a'lam

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Don't be sad and despair

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Don't be sad and despair over the problems that befall us, because that could be God's way of erasing our sins and elevating our status. 

From Abu Sa'id and Abu Hurairah, they heard the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam say, مَا يُصِيبُ الْمُؤْمِنَ مِنْ وَصَبٍ وَلاَ نَصَبٍ وَلاَ سَقَita ْ سَيِّئَاتِهِ

 "A believer will not be hit by a disaster in the form of pain (which will not heal), fatigue, pain, sadness, and worry that hit him but his sins will be forgiven" (HR. Muslim no. 2573).

 From Mu'awiyah, he said that he heard the words of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, مَا مِنْ شَىْءٍ يُصِيبُ الْمُؤْمِنَ فِى جَسَدِهِ يُؤْذِيهِ إِلاَّ كَفَّرَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ بِهِ مِنْ سَيِّئَاتِه "It is not a misfortune that befalls the body of a believer and it hurts him but it will wash away his sins" (HR. Ahmad 4: 98. Shaykh Syu'aib Al Arnauth said that his sanad is authentic according to Muslim requirements) 

There is always wisdom behind life's trials that befall us, so a Muslim should remain patient and be kind to Allah subhanallahu wa ta'ala.


 Hopefully, for whatever misfortune we receive, Allah will forgive our sins, multiply our rewards and provide a way out of every problem we face. Amen!


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multiple intelligences

Posted by Motivasi hidup Wednesday 10 May 2023 0 komentar
Multiple Intelligences (Multiple Intelligences) There used to be a high school friend who always kicked my chair, asking for answers during exams. Now he is a cop. There is also a friend who is ranked below me, is now a high-ranking official in the Air Force. Since high school, he always wears army shoes. On the other hand, there are also stories of people who did very well at school, but had a hard time getting a job. In the past, a person's intelligence and success were measured by his IQ. Students who have a high IQ are believed to be intelligent children, while those a low IQ are automatically labeled stupid. In fact, many people who are labeled as not smart are even more successful in their careers and professions, beating their friends with higher IQs. In 1983 Howard Gardner, a professor of psychology, wrote the book Frames of Mind: The Theory of Multiple Intelligences. I bought the book 15 years ago. He stated that intelligence is not a single ability but several intellectual abilities that are relatively unrelated to one another. According to him there are several types of intelligence: • good at using body parts. Athletes, dancers, actors, police, soldiers, surgeons and craftsmen tend to have high abilities in this type of intelligence. They like to draw, play jigsaw puzzles, read maps. So it reminds me of my students in class who are always sleepy but sometimes noisy. I told him to walk around the class (move) during the lesson. He really likes it. He can't study if he just sits still. Because most boys are kinesthetic learners. Teaching in a male class Vocational High School all really has to be creative.Once upon a time many children were late. I asked, “Do you want the consequences to read or run? In unison they replied, "Runiii...." And...they ran around the field with joy. Funny? Annoyed but wanted to laugh. I never get angry even if they make mistakes. There is a reason behind their behavior that must be understood. To calm children like this, sometimes I invite them to meditate for a while in class to calm themselves down, accompanied by soothing music. They really like it. • Interpersonal intelligence This intelligence is followed by the ability to recognize other people's personalities: intentions, feelings, moods, temperaments and motivations. They learn more effectively through group activities, seminars, and dialogues. They are suitable as salespeople, teachers, community leaders, managers, social workers, counselors or politicians. • Intrapersonal intelligence, This type of child has the ability to understand himself. People who have high intrapersonal intelligence are able to recognize their strengths and weaknesses, what makes them unique, and are able to predict their own reactions or emotions. They are suitable to be psychologists, BK teachers etc. • Naturalist intelligence This intelligence is followed by the ability to recognize and classify various species, both flora and fauna, rocks, types of mountains that exist in their environment. This ability is needed among botanists, chefs, farmers, nutritionists etc. Everyone has a different combination of intelligence from each other. However, in reality, parents and teachers have not maximized these types of intelligence. The formal education system seems to still generalize intelligence. Not a few special children fall victim to the school system that only measures language intelligence and mathematical logic. Kinesthetic children will certainly find it difficult to sit still and listen to the teacher. Musical kids will have a hard time understanding numbers. Mathematical children will have difficulty in painting lessons, and so on. It's like having fish, birds and monkeys climb a tree. The one who succeeded in being given the title of 'great' was of course the monkey. The others wouldn't bring out the ability to climb, because that wasn't really his type of intelligence. On the other hand, if the monkey is tested to swim, it will certainly not pass. If a child excels in language, interpersonal, and intrapersonal intelligence, but is very weak in musical, spatial, kinesthetic, and mathematical logic, he or she may not have outstanding marks in report cards. In fact, this combination of intelligence can actually be very successful in areas that were unthinkable during school, such as in sales or business. Gardner's theory invites educators and parents to pay more attention to children according to their unique advantages. No more stupid children, for those who are weak in one or two types of intelligence may be very special in types.The story of Michael Ifianto, an industrial designer, can be used as an example. When he was at school, he was not even promoted by his teacher. He had to change schools. The BP teacher asked him to focus on passing only, no need to chase grades. He can focus on his hobby of drawing. After graduating from high school, he studied S1 majoring in Visual Communication Design (DKV), and S2 in Italy. He got a lot of job offers from international companies. Now he is a lecturer and has his own industrial design business in Surabaya. Intelligence test is not everything. IQ tests and multiple intelligence tests, are not the sole determinant of how a person's future and success will be. There are many variables that determine success, such as hard skills (skills) and soft skills (morals, ethics, communication, leadership, persistence, problem solving, self-confidence), opportunities, a supportive environment, etc. Parents and educators must understand the child's intelligence, give him the opportunity to develop this type of intelligence and of course create a supportive environment for his success. There is no need to compare our children with other people's children. Just love the child as he is. Greetings Parenting. Parenting is loving. with love.

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