THE MOTIVATOR

The biggest motivation comes from yourself... Make motivation as an encouragement To change life for the better. Because.. No one is successful without a process.. Never fall Never fail Never be afraid of failure.. Because failure is what will make us know, how to fix something to make it even better.

THE TONGUE IS SHARPER THAN KNIFE 

How can a buffalo die just because of GOSSIP After returning from the fields, the Buffalo lay in the cage with a tired face and heavy breathing. Then a dog came, and the buffalo said: "Ah... my friend, I am very tired, if I may tomorrow I will just take a day's rest". The DOG left and on the way he met a cat, then the dog said: "I met a buffalo earlier, he said he wants to rest tomorrow. It's appropriate because the boss gives you too much work". The CAT then told the goat: "The buffalo complained that the boss gave him too much and too much work, tomorrow he doesn't want to work anymore". The GOAT found the chicken and he said: "The buffalo doesn't like working with the boss anymore, maybe he already has a better job." CHICKEN also met the monkey and he also told the story: "Buffalo will no longer work for the boss and want to work elsewhere". At night, MONKEY met the Boss and said: "Boss, recently the buffalo has changed his character and wants to leave the boss to work for another boss". Hearing the monkey's words, the BOSS was ANGRY and without further confirmation, he immediately slaughtered the buffalo because he was considered to have betrayed him. Whereas the buffalo's original saying: "I'M TIRED AND TOMORROW WANT TO REST FOR A DAY." Through some *friends* this speech has changed and reached the boss to become: "The buffalo has recently changed his character and wants to leave his boss and work for another boss". So what does that mean??? Sometimes ONE TALK STOP is enough to reach our ears and DON'T HAVE to reach other people's ears. DO NOT Swallow it whole or just believe it EVERY NEWS or other people's words even if it comes from the mouths of those closest to us. We need check the TRUTH before acting or deciding something, confirm directly to the source. THE HABIT OF FORWARDING WORDS/news from others by adding or subtracting them or replacing them with our own perceptions & assumptions CAN have FATAL RESULTS. If in doubt with the words / news from someone or anyone, we should ask directly to the person concerned to CONFIRM THE TRUTH.

SELF-MEASUREMENT

Insulting doesn't make you look nobler

Dropping doesn't make you look taller

Bad-mouthing doesn't make you look better

Blaspheming doesn't make you look great

Instead, it makes clear who you are and what your character is

Humans are not perfect, don't compare your life

with other people's lives and don't feel better than others

It could be that the person you think is bad turns out to have a good side

but you don't know

Just pray so that no hatred is created in the heart.

Because every soul has its light, there is no need to turn off the soul's light

others just to look shinier than him

Every soul has its goodness, there is no need to vilify other souls

just to look better than him

Every soul has its net, there is no need to drop another soul

just so that your path feels more spacious than him

Because being great doesn't mean you have to be the only one

The sky is too wide to accommodate all the stars to shine

with uniqueness

Don't worry, just focus on yourself. .

Live this life with joy, don't compare life

us with others, because life is a journey not a competition.

Life is not about who is the best, but who can do good

and not pretending to be good

Calm down, no need to be jealous, we each have our share,

A life that looks luxurious is not necessarily really beautiful

Keep on going, as long as you are on a good path, even though sometimes

kindness is not always appreciated. "

The way God loves you is sometimes not by giving you life in abundance, but by giving you a life full of simplicity, because God wants to lighten your reckoning.

God's way of loving you sometimes is not by giving you health, but by giving you pain, because God wants to erase your sins.

God's way of loving you sometimes is not by giving you happiness and comfort, but by giving you various calamities and trials, because God wants to raise your degree later in heaven.

The way God loves you sometimes is not by granting what you want, but by delaying your prayer or replacing something else, because God knows that there is danger behind what you ask for.

For that, keep husnudzon to Allah, for all the difficulties, illnesses, tests, difficulties and failures that you face.

Because the road to heaven is not easy.

It takes a test so that we get a lot of rewards from Him.

It takes patience so that we get His blessing,

It takes pain so that we get His forgiveness,

It takes sacrifice so that we get a high position in His heaven.

That's sometimes the way God loves you..

Even some wounds are created not to heal, so that they can be meaningful lessons and if we are sincere, we will get a reward.

So be patient with all the fates that you face, Truly in the end you will understand that behind everything that Allah has outlined, it turns out that there is a lot of happiness and goodness.

HOPE WE CAN LEARN FROM THIS STORY

A father said to his son: "You have passed the exam with the best marks, this is the car that my father bought many years ago. I love him very much and now I will present it to you".

The son saw a rather shabby car, abandoned in the old garage.

"But before dad gives it to you, take it to a used car shop and tell them you want to sell it and see how much they will offer you.

 

The boy went to a used car shop and returned to his father and said: "They offered me Rp. 18,000,000 because the car was not maintained and looks very old"

The father then said, "Try to take it to a pawn shop." The child went to the pawn shop, then returned to his father and said: "The shop only offers Rp. 1,800,000 because the car is very old."

 

Then the father asked his son to go to the car club and show them the car. His son took the car to the club, came back and told his father: "Some people at the club offered Rp. 360 million for it, because it was a Nissan Skyline R34. An iconic car and sought after by many people.

The father said to his son: "DAD JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW, THE RIGHT PLACE AND PEOPLE WILL JUDGE YOU FOR THE RIGHT VALUE"

If we are not appreciated, don't be angry, it means we are in the wrong place. Those who really know know how to appreciate. Don't wait too long in our unappreciated place. Don't waste your time dealing with people who don't value you.

    All people hear only what be knew.

    Good morning, on the occasion of this morning, I would invite you to go to the past, which at that time, we find a lot of stories from people who can give us motivation, inspiration, advice, or a good example. On this occasion, I will share some of the stories, which perhaps we can learn.
     The story of a woman aged 90 years old. when asked, if he could play the piano, she replies that she does not know. "You do not know what it means? 'Woman then replied with a smile," I've never tried it ". I think it is a good answer, which I hope will open the eyes, ears, and the way some people think. Many of us who have a talent that has not been utilized, because we have never "try" to do something else and different.
   Another story is, nat king cole story. Almost everyone knows "nat king cole". He admired all the beautiful people because of his voice and silky smooth. He can sing ballads, in which only a few people can match. All people do not know how he started his career, he began his career as a piano player.
    One night, at the club's west coast, the singer was not present there that night, and the club owners look for it. When nat king cole said that the singer was ill. The club owner said, "if there is no singer, I would not pay his wages." Since that night, nat king cole take over and sing. The rest is history.
    As for the other stories that we could emulate, from the title of this post. For example, the story will rogers. During the first seven years of his career, Rogers will demonstrate the ability to play rope. He was a true cowboy. He is very skilled at playing rope. On one night, one of the audience asked, the answer to that question will make everyone laugh. Then, there is another who asked him, once again will rogers respond with a sense of humor. Since that night, began his career as a versatile comedian. However, he was more than a comedian. He has an innocent nature, motivating and always inspiring to everyone.

Message: You may not be able to sing well or play the good straps or provide motivation and can not advise all people. But, you have the ability that you can use and you need to develop.
Suggestion: if they ask you, if you can do something you've never done before, do not immediately answer "no". Think about it, maybe you should try it first. Chances are, you have the ability that you do not realize. Try it, maybe you can.
    Here are some stories that I can share, may be useful for all of us. thank you for your visit.
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     The motivator, on this occasion I will discuss a bit about how to choose a husband for your daughter, this particular message to the father, you are supposed to choose a husband for your daughters. On previous occasions, I also never talk about
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   If what you believe can not affect the way you live, then what you believe it does not really matter.
     Do not misunderstand, I do not mean to suggest that you try searching the newspapers or in the neighborhood where you live, to choose the proper husband for your daughter. However, I want to say to you, that you are helping your daughter choose her future husband. for choosing a good husband for your daughter, click here.
    The process begins when your daughter like to sit on your lap or ride your back. Actually, the first knowledge that was obtained by your daughters about relationships with the opposite sex is derived from his father. What is a father teaching his daughter how a man treats a woman, would be a measure of expectations-expectations. If you treat your wife with courtesy and respect, then your daughter will keep it in his memory as the way it should be treated by her future husband.
   When you see your son loves his mother and treated with respect, he came to know that he should treat his future wife like that. but on the contrary, if you look at your daughter Treating your wife with rough, then your daughter will learn that such a man that treats a woman, and he would not be surprised, though obviously your daughter will not like it if her husband will be abused her.
   When you get married, it will be in your wife's mother say to your wife is "you have made a deal of a lifetime, but if he is torturing you, you know there are homes available for you". By surprising coincidence, that's what we say to our daughters. This communication helped our daughter avoid mistakes and errors.
   So, for the father, the meaning of all this is, "if you love your daughter, then you should treat your daughter and mother with respect and tact. If you do, chances are your daughter will choose her future husband wisely. The possibility that her candidate is also exactly what will be chosen by her father. if you have a questions. how can i help my daughter marry well? click here.

    "Whale holding a message to his son, only if you spray water, you will be in a spear".
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