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Monday, 5 May 2014
We're on the same side
kindness-enos.blogspot.com , Take a moment to answer these questions , will help you practice what you have learned . Into
action and will motivate you to consider the interests of others , with
whom you live and how you can provide services to them . On this precious occasion , let me divide my favorite story .
There is a story , " a little boy disturbed by three unruly children , big and disruptive children . Quickly, the little boy drawing a line on the ground . Then he retreated , and looked at the child who bullies her most. The little boy said , " now let 's skip the line " . Confidently , the bully is over the line , and ready to hit the little boy. Then , for some reason , this little boy smiled and said , " now we 're on the same side . "
Physically , they are on the same side , but emotionally , they are still far away . Intelligence possessed by the child , he took the opportunity to put himself on the same side . This is a very effective way to cope with situations most critical , and is a major step in solving any problems that arise .
The meaning of the lessons that can be taken from the story of this little boy is :First , whether the situation is that between parent and child , with labor management , teachers and students . Actually , they are the part of same . and the best way to win is a win-win .Second , a sense of humor can eliminate barriers in communication , and to reveal the human side of you , and sympathy .Third , sometimes you can strive for the big bullies ( those who have the power , leader ) moved his desk over there . This allows for co-workers , students , or employees can clearly
understand , that they really are on the same side , and open to listen
to each other 's ideas , which they can propose from both sides .Fourth
, it is very important that you always maintain your perspective ,
being open , and do justice when you look at other people's lives .
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Thursday, 1 May 2014
They are all doing well, kindness-enos.blogspot.com, You
have been given the right of citizenship , in the State which is not
the same as any country in the world , with the opportunities available
to you , which is not the same with any country , which we told you was
hard work , nothing is given free of charge to you , use your education , and rescue those still trapped in poverty and violence . Above all , never lose confidence in the American , all the mistakes done those before you , to fix, not for cursing . ( General Colin Powell )
New Orleans , there is a remarkable family , living in a slum . They are a family Lundy Smith , Susie Mae Lundy and Willie J. Smith . Willie J. Smith , was a Baptist preacher , who raised nine children were successful . This family , an example , skills in entrepreneurship , which was
built with the base , confidence , commitment , and hard work .
Every child has responsibilities that have been set . At
the age of 5 years , the sixth son, is expected to serve and to work
cleaning up the Exxon gas station , and a family-owned workshops . One of the boys it was Larry , now has 31 outlets pizza hut . Since childhood they are taught that " what you eat at night , depending on what you do during the day .
Encouragement or motivation like that , they are very easy to understand and very effective to be applied in their lives . In addition to Larry , there was Michael , a Houston oil executive car . Harold , a president of Grambling State University in Louisiana . Mark and Wilton , a psychiatric counselor in Houston . Nell , an elementary school teacher in Houston . Lloyd , a vice president of Goodwill Industris in Beaumont , texas . Jackie , a nurse in the emergency room in New Orleans . And Yolanda , was an accountant in New Orleans .
They all are the people who work hard , productive , and they start their career since childhood . In
1978 , these children lead a fundraising campaign , which they managed
to collect $ 65,000 , to build a church , which is now led by their
father . Of these children , has given Willie J. Smith , 14 grandchildren , and 3 great-grandchildren .
Apparently, the American dream is still alive for those who want to work hard , and be sure the American dream . But , the important thing is if they have parents who are guiding and directing them to the goals and dreams since childhood
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Friday, 18 April 2014
How to treat high blood pressure? According
to Greg Risberg , north western university of medicine in Chicago ,
said the arms are physiological benefits of lowering blood pressure and
increase the oxygen in the blood . He said , we also have a thirst for a hug , and we would have missed an important part of our health , if we lack a hug . According to my perspective , I need more than four hugs every day .
Stanley
Simon , from the University of Massachusetts, said that a hug is more
than just a show of affection , seems to embrace it is healthy . The skin is the largest sensory organ of our body . if your skin lacking in stimuli , many people actually feel sick . These are people who are increasingly difficult to obtain and difficult to maintain his health recovery .
For the benefit of you , for the husband , let me tell you about your wife . They love hugs , but hate it when you ignore them . Your
wife wants a sincere hug , which does not contain any hidden intentions
, they do not necessarily want a long hug , and in most cases , a wife
who does not want a suggestive and sensual hug , hug it really say " I
love you , you are important for me , I like to feel close to you , I wanted to spend more time with you " . There's the old expression that says that , " the act more effective than words .
Spending
a few seconds every day to give and get some hugs are not suggestive ,
is more than enough to express your feelings of affection . Other meaning of a hug is dampen hatred , convince your spouse that you love him . When you hug your partner , a lot of positive energy felt by your partner .
The level of health care quality people who are married to people who are not married , very much difference . Both physiological and spiritual health . In
fact , with a hug every day can reduce the level of tension in the
nerves of the brain that often lead to stress , and can reduce high
blood pressure . people who get hugs every day , in believing possess a longer life than those who lack a hug .
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Thursday, 17 April 2014
the solutions
A winner was brave enough to admit a mistakes , smart
enough to benefit from it , and strong enough to correct them .
Every problem has a solution , and the best solutions must be equally beneficial . Howard Putnam in his book entitled " The wind of turbulence " telling a story as follows . Baylor Hospital in Dallas , had major problems. Because it does not have enough nurses willing on weekends , because everyone wanted to pass the time with his family . But there are also a number of nurses , who have children , who want to spend as much time with their children .
In
most cases , nurses are married , have a husband who is working on
Monday through Friday , even single mothers want to spend time with
small children . So the question is , can we meet the needs of these nurses ? Head of the hospital to ask , how can we help these women get what they want ? How can we help our nurses full time , to get what they want ?
The
solution is due to work on weekends generally considered overtime ,
they decided to make Saturday and Sunday to take turns on duty together
12 hours . And they paid for the nurse in charge on Saturday and Sunday . Thus, the nurse on duty on weekends was happy to get a reward. Meanwhile , the nurses who spend the weekend with his family too pleased .
It is a win- win . And hospitals and patients are also happy . That's good leadership .
The
message is , examine alternative solutions that you have, look at what
the problem is , and ask yourself, if the solution is the problem? Of the many stories , every problem has a solution . In fact , in every single issue , there are two solutions . As in the story above , overtime nurses , and nurses who are equally profitable holiday .
You need to know , as difficult as any problem , note the problem , ponder if you are having trouble . Sometimes you need someone to help you .Thank you for visiting.
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Wednesday, 16 April 2014
DAYS FULL OF MEMORIES , Today is the tomorrow that makes you optimistic about the day yesterday. The question, "What will you do today to make tomorrow as bright as when you expect today?
There is a joke that is very popular, "a former athlete with a guffaw say, the older I am getting better"! that statement more true than in the fictive, and in a certain sense, that was a good statement. Clearly show that the person concerned look back and reminisce the good stuff from the bad things in life.
Attitudes like that, can be sure will live long and happy life and healthier. Realistically, most of our memories of "memorable day" does not correspond to the facts. On the 150 years ago, life expectancy for more than 40 years. Today, the life expectancy of nearly 70 years.
When I was young, polio is a disease that is common. The parents, fear of polio on their children, when their children play outside in the hot season. Today, after the vaccine is found, polio was now no longer contagious. Today, more than 80% of millionaires in America are first generation millionaires.
Achievement
woman, respected in the world of business, medicine, science,
education, athletics, and other fields, which in previous years in
denial about. In America, these days, more minorities are educated scholars and occupy top priority in the business world. It is not at all mean to say that it's the same.
However, it is clear that we are experiencing a lot of progress. So far, success is always defined as a journey, not a destination, but we need the right direction. If
the problem with criminal acts, abuse of drugs, and violence rarely
remember it, meaning that most people do
not want their bad memories.
Everything is better today than yesterday. As a nation, we have problems, but we are actively looking for a solution. I will give you suggestions to enjoy today and look to the future with optimism and hope.
In fact, the good memories will erase bad memories. Because of this, most people remove their grief by remembering their wonderful memories. The days are full of memories are the days that will make you feel alive again.
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Monday, 14 April 2014
The characteristics of a winner, Admitting mistakes is the beginning , correct it is a step of progress , followed up is successful .
Over the years I have spoken at several thousand events of various kinds of descriptions conversation . . I 've talked to groups consisting of 12 people , and also to 60 thousand people . Consistently, I have noted a tendency of all listeners , especially in
sales organizations as well as conference leadership or management .Without
exception , most people who have a high reputation , is present in the
front row , depending on the vision and where they sit . People
who already know everything , or who feel that the show is just a waste
of time , or they 've felt ever heard , definitely arrive late or sit
in the backseat . Home early and it also includes the people who like to talk with people who are on his side.I
have also observed , when people like this go to an athletic event or
to a place of entertainment , they tend to want the best seats . They generally come much earlier and annoyed when there is interference from others .I
tell you all this to say that the people who mean the front row to come
to events or inspirational education with great expectations . They come in a state of readiness to learn and a lot of notes . A
study at Harvard Univesity revealed that the people who most benefit
from the meetings : 1) come up with the expectations of getting great
ideas 2 ) lots of notes and 3 ) discuss with colleagues what they have
learned and compare each note . Thus they reinforce what they have learned and take the things they miss from colleagues. In short these people are winners because they plan to win , prepare
to win and expect to win and that's a good approach to life .You would not be a smart if you bad attitude ( JOHN MAXWELL )
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Sunday, 13 April 2014
Expectations of future
Everything will be better , for those who take advantage of all events as well as possible . Doctor Jhon Maxwell said , that if there is hope for the future , then there is power at the moment . The reason is very simple , hope for the future have a dramatic impact on your thoughts at this time .
Thought
you today will determine your achievement today , and your
accomplishments today , possess a direct influence on your future . Doctor
Tony Campolo of eastern collage in pensylvania say , that your past is
important , because it will bring you right now which way . however , as important as your past is still very critically important how you see the future .
In essence , he said , that he understands your problems in the past . Dark past , suffering , chaotic household . All of these are events that can make your traumatic , which will affect the way you think and how you behave . Doctors Campolo , did not deny the influence of your past . Because many of the events are very important . However , he said that , everything was very influential on will change your future .
John
Johnson is the publisher of ebony magazine , and is one of the 400
richest people in America , said that "everyone is not limited by their
origin , their race , or from whom they were born in , but will be
limited by the size of their expectations of future . Do not forget your past , so you can focus on these days , make it as motivation that will drive you to a better future .
The past is a memory that will never be forgotten just like that . Wherever
you go, wherever you place now , do not ever forget your true self ,
the reality of life with a face full of optimistic , tomorrow is a dream
, no dream is realized without you doing anything at this time . And today is a reality . The fact of the picture of your future , and the shadow of your past .Thank you for visiting , I hope you are successful and happy always . amen
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