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Friday, 28 March 2014
ALL BY MY SELF How to love yourself, Loving yourself is not a fault or a sin comparable to abandon yourself .
Many people assume , attitudes to love yourself is a selfishness . Who thinks only of himself without any sense of caring for others . if only in view of the possibility of the downside of this attitude
seem selfish , but if you do not love yourself, then the consequences
will be even worse .
Everything
must start from yourself, if you can accept your situation with loving
yourself , it will give a positive impression for most people . You will look more happy and friendly . This attitude will also keep you from poor sense of compassion, and protect you from adversity and suffering .
Selfishness is not for you to love yourself, because loving yourself is the first step towards the true goodness . Only you with a loved one or whatever it is , you can actually love them in a way that they really want.
Very few people make the mistake of being too love yourself . Instead most people make mistakes because they do not love themselves. That led to the emergence of a sense of guilt and self-punishment , this attitude is far more damaging than the self-indulgent .
The
greatest gift you can give to yourself is the desire to be yourself and
express a desire for what is what is inside of you . If you can imagine that the blurbs in yourself proceeds from your
wisdom and act on these blurbs , then you will move further in the
appeal if you doubt or reject the blurbs .
Do not let yourself get out of majesty . Many of those who were doing it , and the world lost benefits because of it . Major changes achieved by people who are confident enough to believe that they may have a contribution they can do . When you know you get a fair price then you will be loving yourself as appropriate . In the end you are in a very good position to help others .
so in conclusion , to love yourself before you love others , and love others as you love yourself.
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Thursday, 27 March 2014
Reach for glory
Keep up anything for love , if you are truly human , if not leave this league .
Halfhearted
attitude will not be able to achieve glory , you go to find God , but
then you stop for a long time at the stopover point in life abomination .
( Rumi )
The implied meaning in the sentence above is leading us to maintain a goal to the good. The key to success is to stay true to your goals . Your life is a perfect mirror of your goals , life gives you exactly what you give in this life .
If you possess a relationship , a career , or a particular life path with heart, then you will enjoy the full results . However , if you do so only halfheartedly only, then you will only get half of the results that you want to accomplish . You can not stand in a gap , while embracing both your legs on either side . Jump to one side , but whatever you do jump perfectly . To whichever side you will get . The only possibility that will make you fail is if you are in doubt in the middle of the gap . Therefore , consider before jumping .
Along
the path of spiritual life , a lot of things that would be a hindrance ,
fear , doubt , and illusions await you in many crossroads . Force you to close the heart of the truth , or that protects you from evil forces . If you happen to fall due to these obstacles , then get up and continue your journey .
In the end , you will be familiar with these experiences , and chances are you will become stronger. every thing that appears in front of you is a part of your search. Use your experience to practice finding the truth . And so lightening for them to vile soul .
Not easy to get a glorious recognition from others . In this life , many things that will knock our degrees . But
whatever we receive , life would be meaningless if we want to share
something meaningful for others and not just focus on self-indulgence. Your life will be glorious , your death would not be in vain .
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Real affection
One day , I was severely depressed twice in my life . At that time , my friends came to help me , save me with the support and advices really at intend. In the midst of the depression that I experienced , I have a friend who is doing different things with my colleagues the other .
Every 4 pm , he came to me , inviting me to sit in a chair , take off your shoes from my feet , and massaging my feet . In almost never say any word , but he was there , he was with say . He is dependent upon me , I sort of liaison to the human community and then into myself . He does not need my fix , he knew the meaning of love .
From
the story above , relates that , love is not just words of affection or
love persuasions , but embodied in the form of sincere deeds done
though quietly . When you notice your loved ones are in a situation that is painful , uncomfortable feeling may force you to help him . Although you are good goals , but in fact they do not need help.
All they need is kindness , support , flexibility for them to be themselves . Sometimes our thinking about how others should conduct a process is
a coercion beliefs and values that we believe or beliefs , and their
values are ultimately only add to their pain .
Healing
is to provide relief , not like the way that we think about how other
people should be given a sense of relief , but in a way that really want
to help them . Sweetheart means finding another what makes other people feel happy and then give it to them .
The first step to helping other articles out of the problem is to accompany them . Make them know that you love and care for them . Your presence is more important in comparison with your technique . Meanwhile , the words are not important healing element , though the words were effective in providing tranquility . But just at that moment , that does not heal in the long term .
Just accompany someone when they undergo the process of healing in the face of their problems , is a noble and holy act . If you oppose or support their response to the problem was , then you would only exacerbate their difficulties . If you show compassion to those who are actually without any
conditions , then you will be helping them , in comparison that can be
done by a method of healing with words .
So
in conclusion , to accompany those who are in trouble or critical is
the best method of healing , in a way we could make them accompany them
we care and really showed the true affection to them .. thank you for
visiting
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Wednesday, 26 March 2014
Grateful to the universe
There is a tribe in Alaska, America . Which is known by the name of the Tlingit tribe . Parts of the world live in a rich and prosperous . That
said , when the salmon season , small rivers in the region filled with
so many fish , so anyone can cross the river just by stepping on a fish -
salmon . Tlingit tribal people living with the awareness of the abundance of nature , so that they do not recognize the term starvation .
What can we learn from the life of the Tlingit tribe of the above ?
Picture of life in parts of the world occupied by the Tlingit tribes people , and behold the universe as God created it . Abundant with everything enough for everyone . any sense of the real shortcomings in our thinking . while the flavor is not quite not a fact , but a state of consciousness .
When you think about the " shortage " then everything you see into deprivation . In fact , this theory also applies to prosperity . When you look through the view of the " adequacy " , then you will find the adequacy everywhere . Life is not only able to provide enough food for everyone but also
give a sense of love , health , safety , success , and pleasure are
insufficient .
Your thoughts about prosperity depends on your thoughts . Be careful with what you think . Pay
attention to what you think because it will be a word , consider your
words because it would be an act , watch your actions because it will be
divulging the habit , consider your habits because it will become your
character . Pay attention to your character because it will become your destiny .
It's easy when we talk about the economy , lack or loss , a disease that is endemic . However , to care about what other people say or in what it does . Actually, you have the power to specify the the fate of the world with you in your consciousness . You are a free form in realizing your experiences .
You can create or destroy any belief at any time . All thoughts of prosperity in harmony with the nature and purpose, and also with the universe as God created it to you . Think rich with ideas , then you 'll really realize how rich you are . Conversely , if you think of deprivation , then you have only deficiency .
In conclusion , everything that God created the universe , has a specific meaning and purpose . Even the creation of life like a small mosquito , has tremendous significance , so we want to think . Be thankful for what you have. Thank you for visiting
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appreciate the time
Busyness is a large part of the transfer of the views themselves . we
are afraid to face the feeling of an endless list contains activities , tasks and functions that some of the agreements that we are
always busy . Then we become too busy and tense which causes the harmony of your
social life be delayed so that eventually you become forgotten .
So naturally if things like that cause heart disease we find in our culture . soul and mind need time and space to flow with the balance we will feel happy and healthy , both physically and emotionally . Take your time to enjoy life .
Heart
you are entitled to pleasure , as well as your mind and spirit are
entitled to at refresh time , free of tension , and pressure without
losing your responsibility . In addition , if you keep your life in happiness , then you will
actually reach your tasks more quickly , easily and efficiently .
Every day , you set aside time to rest , calm the mind and do some light activities that are fun to develop your soul . For example, by listening to music , art or dance, read , gather with colleagues , friends, hobbies or out enjoying nature .
When
you do something you love , even in short periods of time each day ,
then you will get back your energy and strength to do the things you
should do . However , if you are too busy to have time to get in touch with your soul , then you really too busy .
Because of that , appreciate your life , as you appreciate yourself , then other things will automatically follow. So in conclusion , do not let your busyness of your time each day ,
make it a habit to share time with soul and your body , cherish every
moment that you have for your personal life with family , colleagues or
socialize with the community .
Take a moment of your time to enjoy the beauty of the world that is given to you . Enjoy your life freely .
Thank you for visiting , may god bless your life with happiness in love and affection . amen
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Tuesday, 25 March 2014
In a seminar , a woman named Lisa , told her story, that she was married to a man who does not have feelings for her . After undergoing years of a long and frustrating in an effort to restore the warmth in her marriage . Lisa felt that she had to leave her husband .
"
I say to my husband , that I want a divorce but my husband refused to
divorce me . " Therefore , I decided that , even though he does not love
me , I will love myself . I decided to give a sense of love and affection on me that I had been looking for in my husband
So
, I wrote several love letters , for myself, the letter contains praise
for me , how beautiful , how wise and how interesting I am . One day , my husband found one of the letter . Because the letter was not signed , my husband thought it was from another man . the next day , my husband came to me , and waved the letter in his hand . He said , " I can not compete with this guy , you get a divorce that you want "
So , what lessons we got from the story above .
Your relationship is a mirror for you . Love that you receive or that you did not receive from others is a reflection of how much you love yourself . When you truly love yourself then you will never be in the abuse. On the contrary , if you do not love yourself, then nobody can help you .
If
you feel sad or frustrated for not getting the love , appreciation , or
acknowledgment that you want to get from other people , then give it
all to yourself , good love , appreciation or recognition . Have all the love for it . Why should bother to look to others ?
When
you love yourself loving the funds , then your happiness will grow
within yourself, and you do not have to hang it on others . when you give a lot of love for yourself , then your relationship
will change as a reflection of the attitude of self-respect that you do .
You do not need to force or manipulate anyone for life will help you to achieve the changes you want . Those who do not fit in with the attitude of self-respect that you
do , will begin to take a stand either respect you or will leave the
world that you have mastered .
In the end , things will change everything , the world will send those that match the attitude of romance in you . Other people love is not source , but the source comes from you , the
other person is not the source of happiness , but the source from within yourself .
So basically , do not rely on others , if you want good results of your work , then working with your own hands .
Hopefully you get what you want. Thank you for visiting.
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It
might be tempting to get rid of people or events that seem to stand in
our way , but what seems to be a barrier there can be an important
lesson or blessing . We never know for sure why people do things . Each person has his own reasons for his actions , and there is often a sense that we do not know at first glance .
If
you can resist the temptation to get rid of or to vent anger without
consideration of the response , then you will find the following
valuable lessons : everything happens for a purpose and everything was
useful . The whole world is a classroom learning for us and everyone is our teacher .
Usually , if someone else who appears to contradict us , actually not so their goal . It
could be that they were only disappointed with something that does not
concern us or being scared or sick for a reason we do not understand . finished . do not take care of their actions or attitudes .
If they look bad , then in fact they just hurt . Do the best to be friendly , and keep your mind from making others as victims or conflict . Compassion to others is a gift we give to ourselves. When the circumstances are right , then happiness will be close to you because you have a wide perspective .
If what you plan did not go according to what you expect , then it is not good for you to impose stronger. If you continue to push yourself , then the situation would be slow . Maybe there are other things where you destined to do something at that time . If you try to do something else might be more easy and fun . Then you will understand , why you blocked .
After that, the roadblocks of your affairs will be resolved and you
can certainly do your task easily and perfectly fit your plan.
So, do not prejudice other people , because it could be any person is a helper for you .
Thank you for visiting , hopefully this article useful .
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