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Wednesday, 12 March 2014
Hope for the future
" Things better for those who take advantage of all the events as well as possible" .
Dr. John Maxwell says that if there is hope for the future , then there is power in the present . Why this is so , the reason is quite simple , hope for the future to have a dramatic impact on your thinking today.
Thought you today determines your achievement today , and achievement today has a direct influence on your future . Dr.Tony Campollo , from eastern collage , pensylvania , saying that
the past is important because iti bring you to where you are right now ,
but as important as your past is not as important as how you see the
future .
In essence , he understands the issues of your past . He knew that you tormented as a child , was raised by a chaotic family . Or you have had a complicated relationship . All of these are traumatic events that affect the way you think and how you behave .
Dr. tony campollo , did not deny your past , because many events are very important . However , he said that in spite of all this , the way you look at your future is much more meaningful .
The
other story of John Johnson , publisher and owner of Ebony magazine ,
and at the same time one of the 400 richest men in America , says that "
men and women , are not limited by their place of birth or of who they
are born , nor by the color of skin them , but by the size of their expectations " .
Be in your past you so you can focus your attention at this time . Do not forget what your past . Maybe we no longer live in the past , but all the events that we have been through in the past is our path to the future . I do not advise you to focus your life in the past , but the past is the gateway to the future and the hope is the key.
If you have the key (hope ) then you will easily fit into your future . All you have to think about the past is to make you as a friend who will accompany you in the future . You probably will not fall again as it once was , but learn from your past . If you fall 7 times , then get up 8 times .
I am not talking about denial of reality , I'm talking about is facing reality in an optimistic way .Hope is the only reason for you to survive , at the same time that separates you from the dead . People who do not have the expectation is that the dead soul .
Think about it, the hope is everything for your future . thank you for your visit . Hopefully, what you expect is what you get . amen
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Tuesday, 11 March 2014
How to educate children properly .
Good morning my beloved world . Today I will post about the beauty of which is owned by the world today . Of course , we realize there is much beauty in this world , both obvious and hidden . Either within us or from the universe . But the beauty is not always visible , sometimes we have to look from the other side . Such beauty that will not be seen by our eyes , but it must be in respect of our hearts .
Below is a story , which is related to beauty invisible to the eye . Happy reading
A little boy who suffered from polio which causes the size of the legs become unbalanced . Only the child's name is Patrick . Patrick , often gets teasing from his friend as " cripple " . One day , Patrick wants to play with his friends , he approached them who was playing . However , not a friendly welcome in the receipt , but laughter humiliation .
His friends abuzz mimicked how Patrick runs . Patrick returned home , his heart is very sad , she could not hold back her tears moans . When he arrived home , his mother asked gently what makes him cry . Patrick tells that in its natural occurrence . After hearing the story of Patrick , his mother said, " Patrick dear , the pain which , at the head or foot ? "
" The legs , ma'am , " replied Patrick .
Comrades Patrick , his legs are not sore ? Asked the mother. Patrick shook his head . " If their feet are not sore , but walked with a limp , then what's so sick ? She asked again .
Patrick silent .
" Patrick leg pain , but not the head . Patrick could go a long way later . But if both feet and the head are not good , then Patrick could not go anywhere , Patrick wants ?
The statement so made an impression in the hearts of Patrick . He is fully aware of his shortcomings , but he believes in what he can maximize possessed . Although his leg disability , but with cleverness , Patrick can go to distant lands . He , with intelligence and wit nobody can beat him , the spirit of the heart and the desire to rise .
The above story , reminiscent of the problems often experienced when children receive the contempt of his playmate . When
it comes to homes , we medium and praise the child , many parents are
intended to entertain children with praise , but many are not in
accordance with reality . For example , a child who is in contempt because he was black , his friends called him " the black man " . A mother said to her , " Who said black skin ? You're white , they're just one look! "
In this way , might be able to stop the crying of the child for a moment . But really can have a negative impact in the future . For example :
First , children are not aware of the actual reality . Second
, when the child is big , it can compare themselves with others , then
he will realize that her statement was not true childhood . Of course it will lose the confidence of any of her statements .
Third , the child will always thirst with praise . In doing something , he will focus on the assessment of encouragement from the outside and not the inside .
Fourth , the child will not be forced to improve its capabilities. Therefore , if all that in doing it at great value , it will be argued , why do I have to try hard ?
Patrick learned from her mother , in the story , he does not praise her with excessive or deny reality. Honestly , her mother said there is a shortage on the leg of
Patrick , but there are other advantages that can be improved so that
Patrick was able to achieve success .
So many inspiring stories for today , hopefully there are lessons that can capture the benefits . amen
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first aid for children
Increase heart and give happiness , because pain is the right time to form a child's personal and practice patience.
How to care for the child when sick? A young mother feels inconvenience , when her son was sick was upset because his son did not want to go down from the arms. However
, on one occasion , he met with the neighbors , and then told me that
her first child was frequently ill in a matter of weeks . But it's like a mother 's sacrifice .
When a child is sick , when it is a moment of extraordinary for any parent , especially for a mother . Severe pain or pain that is mediocre , still exhausting and emotionally . However , even then , the pain of a child before reaching the age
of five years , when it was an incredible time that is given to the god
parents to more closely as well as forming the personality of the child.
At the time of his illness , the child will usually be demanding more attention to his parents . This is where the parent and child interaction more closely intertwined in the appeal normally . Proximity is what makes parents more familiar with his personality
, while making the experience about what things are indicating that
impaired child health .
in the presence of her mother who is ill is the key to show joy . Sadness or anger will only make a sick child feel depressed . Especially disease in misery is a very severe disease . So fun and kink parent is the best provision for children undergoing day -to-day struggle against disease .
Children
are accompanied by obstinacy and cheerfulness will provide
encouragement for the child to survive against the disease . Therefore , when the pain is the right time to make the child
closer to God , get used to whisper to the child who is sick with the
names of gods and ask god more dear to him .
In addition , give her favorite food so as not to think too much about the disease , take the kids to see the beauty of God . And teach children to pray and be patient that the real disease is
not something that is creepy , but an opportunity to draw closer to the
divine creator .
But
even so , as any disease that is given to a child of god , the most
important thing to deal with it is to surrender to God , whatever God
wills in us is a test for any parent . So , we will be ready to face any conditions . Pray with your child to make him feel calm and strong to face the exam that is given god . " O god us , forgive us , have mercy on us , show us the way of truth , heal our sick , and our sustenance bestow . amen
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Monday, 10 March 2014
TEACHER THIRD CHILD
Good morning , hopefully on a sunny morning , god gives us and our families physical and mental health . amen
This
morning , I as an admin will discuss about the character of the child ,
how to shape the character of children to behave well and polite ? That's all , could be influenced by three things : parents , school teachers , and the environment . Here , I will focus on three things to " ENVIRONMENT " or referred to as " TEACHER THIRD CHILD " .
A girl about four years old , asked her mother busy . Finish the question , he asked again . At the same time , her mother was talking to the child's uncle . Was disturbed by his nephew , the uncle felt his pack of cigarettes
, and then threw it at his nephew 's mouth , " basic chatty " said his
uncle scolded .
The child is then shocked , screaming and crying to his mother . In addition to feeling pain in her mouth , she also felt hurt by the rough treatment of her uncle . Then her mother comforted her . Long story short , the child now grown , married and have two kids . Despite the bad experience it has been passed almost 35 years , but he felt as though it were yesterday .
He was hated at his uncle and felt disappointed with his mother which he did not defend it . Entertainment at that time provide it only minimally and not solve the problem . The child was traumatized by items related to smoking , such as ashtrays or lighters . Many years these girls live in fear of the goods and feel traumatized .
That experience somehow makes it often afraid to ask and do not want to try to find out more about the one thing he learned . The girl has now earned a master's degree from two different fields .
Another story happened in a motivational training for primary school children . The coach gives direction important to be careful in seeing pictures or impressions on the internet or television . One of the boys looked dreamy and smiled to herself , without listening to the material described .
The child is then in talking to. Though
at first he was evasive , but in the end he admitted that he had seen a
porn movie scene in the driver cell phone for 10 minutes every day .
When the information is accurate, the child 's mother confirmed it . Finally the driver was fired . Although
the driver was gone , but the impact of his behavior remained attached
to the child's brain and lead to deviant behavior . The child is often stunned , daydreaming and concentration and if in Tanya , the answer is often incoherent .
In
conclusion , from the two stories above , describe the role of the "
third teacher " for the children " environment " after parents and
teachers at school . Many
parents are not aware of the dangers at the same time the role of the "
third teacher " is , among other things : a housekeeper , driver ,
relatives , neighbors , even the guests who come . All of it can be a teacher for children .
Not
enough training parents and find a good school , but it is also
important to look at the situation and condition of the third teacher in
order not to damage the physical or mental . In the first story , the mother should admonish his brother ( uncle of the child ) that it is inappropriate in doing . Problems must get to the bottom , until the child does not carry the load until he was an adult . It does not change the lesson of " third teacher " is. However , there was no choice but to teach them how they should behave in children . Therefore , you should never entrust the children to the " third teacher " that we do not know for certain behaviors. Their behavior will also affect the behavior of our children .
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Get to know yourself
In the tradition of a tribe in Africa , when a woman realized she was pregnant . He went with some friends to a place in the jungle . Together they pray and meditate until they hear ( in prayer and meditation they are ) a typical baby singing . When they are already familiar with the baby singing voice , they then sang with a melodious voice .
After that , they returned to their village , and they teach that song to everyone who was there . When the child was born , people gathered and sang the song. And when the boy had started to school days , people gather and sing the same song .
When the boy had grown up , once again all the people gathered and sang the same again . When married , everyone sang the song. Just before his death , the people and the child associates
gathered and sang the song of precision when the child will be born .
On another occasion , in which the people in the village are also singing the same song . If
on one day in the course of his life , the child commits a crime or an
act outside its social fairness , then he will be brought to the middle
of the village . There all the villagers make a circle , and sing the same song around the child.
A friend is one who knows you chant and sing to you when you yourself forget it .
The impression conveyed in the story above is that your soul has its own song . Your energy and special purpose dictated by talent , talents , skills , desires and your views . When
you feel happy and act on the basis of the feeling of pleasure that,
then your heart will be fulfilled and your life will be fun . And conversely , when you lose touch of your liking , then you will
feel empty , your life feels frustrating and you will wonder what
you're doing in life .
In
fact , when you made was not thinking clearly because of fear and
obstacles in your life , your singing is still alive in you . Twang tone is still strong in your life . When you face difficulties , various twists and setbacks of life ,
your soul guide you from the inside , forcing you to keep going and
reaching the light of happiness .
When you face a big challenge , the knowledge within you come
forward with a force that has never existed before , all the lessons you
bring your life to move back into the rhythm of your soul .
Others may seek to influence the order you do not you sing but they sing . If you do that then your life is full of flavor not like and you will lose your voice . To get it back , get back in touch with you and did according to the truth on the basis of the truth .
You can help others by reminding them of who they are . Dropping the dignity of others, mutual show of force and accuse
each other , an act that is not true , these actions encourage people
away from their happiness .
When
someone is in a state of distress or there is a conflict , help them to
remember who they are , and they do not need to hurt others . sincere expressions will bring , healing , relief and peace . Remember
your singing or in this case yourself , your position and your home
state so you have your own appeal and would be a fun person . You will also find peace within yourself .
Hopefully
this post useful for all of us , hopefully there are things that can be
learned and hopefully inspire our lives for the better . amen
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Sunday, 9 March 2014
THE POWER OF MOTHER PRAYER
My mother was a widow , and worked as a traveling salesman . One day , I asked for money for tuition to the mother , although I also know the condition of the mother state . But , my mom just got 5000 rupiah . Then , my mother siblings gather my brother"s , and do a deal . Eventually they decided that I quit college . They could not pay for my college .
The decision was made me restless and could not sleep . I went out , made ablution and prayed Tahajjud discriminate . That night I prayed , crying , begging the gods instructions . Although the college is not everything , but my desire to go to college is huge . After morning prayers . I begged the mother , " Mother , I'm sorry , please give the money that the five thousand . Prayer it so that I can finish college . " While crying , the mother gave the money to me .
After giving me the money , the mother said " how you can finish your studies with the five thousand dollars ? "
" I do not know, ma'am . " " But , I 'm sure I 'll finish it " .
Inwardly , I was confused by it . But finally , I did not immediately decide to go to the city of Bandung , where my university . With that money I went to a place , in the city of Cirebon , Indonesia . I work in a factory rattan . Because it is still vacation , so I decided to work . I am raising money for the costs to the city where I went to college , the city of Bandung .
Over a month of my work , and the money collected , I took a bus to the city of Bandung . On the way , a sudden miracle to come , on the bus I saw a grass cutter . I imagine , grass cutter that will surely sell grass - grass for foraging . Then , I saw the bus driver , he was feeding from his job as a driver .
Finally , I am inspired by what I saw . Then I said to myself . I am aware of who I am and what my status . " I am a student , every day I take a book , read a book . why I can not eat from the book ? I really this stupid .
Until in the city of Bandung , I decided to find a mosque to stay . Alhamdulillah
, in a village called Edge Berung , I got an offer in by citizens who
called Mr. Sujana , to stay in school next to her home . My task is to teach elementary school children , I teach religious studies .
Alhamdulillah , Allah gave me ease . It continues. Until finally , there was a friend of children of mine , gave me money to 100 thousand rupiah . I use to pay half the cost . The days passed , the loan typewriter , I wrote an article , an opinion, or any short story I wrote . Then I send it to print .
Alhamdulillah , my writing is posted on a newspaper , I can pay of the two posts as much as 40 thousand rupiah. As a result, every week my writing in print . And I can continue my studies .
Message
and impression in this story is , consider the small ideas because it
would be very unusual idea , without a thousand is not going to be ten
thousand , without ten thousand will not be a hundred thousand , no
hundred thousand would not be a million . Pay attention to your surroundings and take precautions .Message , any effort would you do , ask the mother was prayer . In order for your business smoothly and achieve success .
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How to overcome fear
Good night all , tonight I will discuss in a sense that every human being had . As in the title above . And how to handle it .Fear is the dark side of the human being in which the negative was developed .The fear has been properly made in stands of false evidence Appearing Real ( FEAR ) , false evidence that seems real . Actually , if we think that something is feasible in fear , the perception of it being the most cruel form of reality . A little boy was heard to say "it is easy to be brave when you are not afraid " . Similarly , it is easy to tell how to overcome fear , if not much that you fear
The fear is real for most people , and we all have a fear of something . For example , divorce , rejected , death , failure , poverty , public speaking or laughing .Then, how do you overcome fear ? Here are some possible ways you can learn :First , you must learn to examine fear , you have to know what you are afraid of . For example , speech , speech is the number one fear in the world . Not everyone can make a speech , according to Reader's diegest ( speech is also a great confidence builder ) . If that is your fear , ask yourself , Why am I afraid to make a speech ? Is it because I'm afraid to be rejected ? If yes , did I think I would be on the decline ? Do I believe what I'm saying? Is my speech worth ? Would I be proud of the comments I going to say?
By
asking these questions , I believe , your fear can be reduced , because
you have to explore your subconscious mind with your questions and
throw away your fear . Some of the world's research shows , there are only three people who died when a speech of 12 billion people . I think it's pretty safe speech . If you are a bit nervous , think about this : you can lead a donkey
into a room full of people , and it will soon calm ass that it almost
can fall asleep while standing .
Godly
beings in the same situation to be nervous as a cat , if you are a
little nervous , be thankful that you are a good descent , not a donkey .
So let's face the feelings , stand up , and speak with full confidence .This
example can apply in a variety of life issues , whatever form that fear
, ask yourself , reflect back what you fear , why should you be afraid .
All depends on yourself.
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